jowa na pinoy

jakolite

11-19-2005, 09:32 AM

hello folks! matanong lang yung opinyon ninyo. May narinig akong stories na yung ibang mga kapwang pinay natin na nagasawa ng hapon ay nag-boboyfriend ng pinoy at the same time. Siguro it works the other way around din sa mga pinoy na nagaasawa ng haponesa pero wala akong naririnig. Essentially, totoo ba to in your experience? May hinahanap ba yung mga kapwa Filipinos natin na hindi nakikita sa asawa nila kaya’t nag-two-two time? Suggestions nyo and experiences nyo lang po! Just trying to find answers!

Salamat!

makulit

11-19-2005, 11:14 AM

hello folks! matanong lang yung opinyon ninyo. May narinig akong stories na yung ibang mga kapwang pinay natin na nagasawa ng hapon ay nag-boboyfriend ng pinoy at the same time. Siguro it works the other way around din sa mga pinoy na nagaasawa ng haponesa pero wala akong naririnig. Essentially, totoo ba to in your experience? May hinahanap ba yung mga kapwa Filipinos natin na hindi nakikita sa asawa nila kaya’t nag-two-two time? Suggestions nyo and experiences nyo lang po! Just trying to find answers!

Salamat!

dont categorize. kahit na yung mga ibang pinoy na may asawang kapwa pilipino, they cheat with their spouse. are they looking for something that they dont see with their current partner? who knows? and we shouldnt care. sariling pamilya na lang natin ang problemahin natin. what they do is their own business. we dont need to understand them.

richie

11-19-2005, 11:47 AM

isang katotohanang di na nabago sa paglipas ng panahon.

betong

11-19-2005, 12:22 PM

I suggest, as Makulit did, that we should not make assumptions on people and not put people (in this case, Filipino’s married to Japanese) in the same basket. There are rotten eggs and there are good eggs. Most are good ones. Who knows what’s in the mind of the rotten ones. And why bother asking anyway?

tfcfan

11-19-2005, 12:24 PM

Hindi lahat ng pinay dito eh ganon!On my opinion ang mga pinay na ganyan eh yung tinatawag nilang “bitch” at gawain na nila yun maski siguro nong nasa Pinas pa sila.Kaya depende sa tao yan.(Sir Nick and Sir Paul sorry for the term I use).Ako kuntento ako sa asawa ko at never pa akong tumingin o maghanap ng ibang guy.

ichimar

11-19-2005, 12:37 PM

dont categorize. kahit na yung mga ibang pinoy na may asawang kapwa pilipino, they cheat with their spouse. are they looking for something that they dont see with their current partner? who knows? and we shouldnt care. sariling pamilya na lang natin ang problemahin natin. what they do is their own business. we dont need to understand them.i agree,huwag na lang nating pakialaman yung problema ng iba…

Stacie Fil

11-19-2005, 01:11 PM

Hindi lahat ng pinay dito eh ganon!On my opinion ang mga pinay na ganyan eh yung tinatawag nilang “bitch” at gawain na nila yun maski siguro nong nasa Pinas pa sila.Kaya depende sa tao yan.(Sir Nick and Sir Paul sorry for the term I use).Ako kuntento ako sa asawa ko at never pa akong tumingin o maghanap ng ibang guy.

Yan ang tunay na lab.:love:

Ikaw at mga kagaya mo ay tunay na Pinay/Pinoy. :king:

Isa lang, tapat, at tunay magmahal.:yesyes:

He,he,he,kilig to the bones.:hihi:

:dowave: Paglaki ko, ikaw ang gagayahin ko.

mz.anna

11-19-2005, 01:24 PM

ganyan tlaga taung mga babae,dati rin akong may asawang hapon,hiwalay na kami pero hinde ko sa pinagsawaan kung di msama ugali nya,ang hapon pang good of 2 years lng ang pagsasama,sa umpisa lang magaling pero pagmatagal na ayan na…hinde ko pinagsisihan na maghiwalay kaming dalawa dahil ang pinalit ko sa kanya eh ang lalaking walang katulad dito sa mundo,kumbaga perfect…5 years na kming magkasama pero ganun pa din sya walang pagbabago…tanga na ko kung papalitan ko pa sya,kahit mraming tukso sa paligid…di sya pinoy latino sya…masarap magmahal ang latino…

ichimar

11-19-2005, 01:59 PM

ganyan tlaga taung mga babae,dati rin akong may asawang hapon,hiwalay na kami pero hinde ko sa pinagsawaan kung di msama ugali nya,ang hapon pang good of 2 years lng ang pagsasama,sa umpisa lang magaling pero pagmatagal na ayan na…hinde ko pinagsisihan na maghiwalay kaming dalawa dahil ang pinalit ko sa kanya eh ang lalaking walang katulad dito sa mundo,kumbaga perfect…5 years na kming magkasama pero ganun pa din sya walang pagbabago…tanga na ko kung papalitan ko pa sya,kahit mraming tukso sa paligid…di sya pinoy latino sya…masarap magmahal ang latino…hindi naman siguro lahat ng hapon ay katulad ng napangasawa mo…ako im married for 2 yrs.at wala naman akong nagiging problema,kung meron man natural lang na nangyayari yon sa mag asawa…theres no perfect life,at naniniwala ako doon…para sa akin wala namang problema na di naaayos at napag-uusapan,and iknow na marami din ditong member na married din sa japanese,mas matagal pa kesa sa akin…:slight_smile:

thermometer

11-19-2005, 02:53 PM

Bro …look eevrywhere…d lang naman po sa japan meron nyan …I been in dubai before pero mas malala pa dahil bawal ang relasyon sa ganoon lugar pero marami sa pinoy and me bawal na relasyon donn compare dto sa japan…

ang point lang…knya knya lang yan…maski pinoy ,hapon or latino…puede mang yari lahat ng puede meron mabait na pinoy at me salbahe…meron din hapon na mabait at mron din…

hinde perfect ang relationship kahit sino ang kapartner mo …kung nagiging mapaghanap man ang babae or lalake dhil meron kulang sa relasyon nila at hinde natin sla puede judge sa kung ano man ang naging dahilan ng pag pasok nla sa bawal na relasyon…

communication is very imporatnt sa erlasyon ng mag partner…ang problema nga lang sa japan mahirp sa atin minsan makaadopt sa culture nla plus the fact language barrier…

just look nalang kung pano nagstart ang relasyon ng pinoy or pinay dto sa japan…kung gaano ang foundation nla…nag simula ba sila as mag freind ,dumaan sa mag bf…or nagigng mag asawa sila dahil as visa… then after doon mo nlang makikta kng bakit d nabuo ang magandang buhay sa knla…

  • but never judge them kung ano man naging buhay nla at nakagwa sla ng pag kakamali man…dapat natin sila intindihin.

myukasky

11-19-2005, 03:02 PM

hindi naman siguro lahat ng hapon ay katulad ng napangasawa mo…ako im married for 2 yrs.at wala naman akong nagiging problema,kung meron man natural lang na nangyayari yon sa mag asawa…theres no perfect life,at naniniwala ako doon…para sa akin wala namang problema na di naaayos at napag-uusapan,and iknow na marami din ditong member na married din sa japanese,mas matagal pa kesa sa akin…:slight_smile:

Ako married and 4 years na rin kami. Japanese din husband ko, di ko sinasabing perfect na husband ko at sa 4 years na pagsasama namin daming nangyari na minsan ay dumating din yung time na gusto na naming maghiwalay. Minsan di natin sila masisisi kung bakit sila nakipaghiwalay siguro may dahilan at kung ano man yun sila lang nakakaalam. Sa mag -asawa dumarating din yung time na may tukso, at kung di mo paglalabanan eh talo ka. Yan ang kasalanan ah ewan kung kasalanan tawag dyan o nagmahal ka lang, na buong buhay mo dadalin. Pero may kasabihan nga na “bunto’t mo hila mo”. Wish ko sana makayanan namin yung mga trials na darating:D

tfcfan

11-19-2005, 03:03 PM

agree din ako sayo ichimar!kami ng husband ko 2 years anyhalf na pero ok pa rin ang pagsasama.Sabi nga ng mga kakilala naming pinay dito mukha lang daw kaming mag-boyfriend/girlfriend kung titingnan kase kahit 8 years tanda nya sa kin,nagki-click pa rin kami.Give and take lang talaga kailangan sa kahit anong klaseng relationship.

japphi

11-19-2005, 03:14 PM

Ako,married for 18 years na.Pinag-isipang mabuti ang pag-aasawa ko nanghapon…na hindi yan kanin na pag napaso ay iluluwa…at syempre hindi lang naman ako ang nag-isip nang maige,asawa ko rin.Dahil talagang mahirap ang international marriage.

Kahit na pare-pareho tayong mga Filipinos…kanya-kanya nang opinion.Para sa akin pag pinakasalan mo ang isang babae/lalaki yun ay dahil MAHAL mo sya:love: …me-pride ka o wala kailangan mong i-surrender yon…may tama o mali sa ugali nya ay tatanggapin mo.Hindi lang puro side mo ang titingnan pag may misunderstanding.

At doon sa nabanggit na ibang kababayan natin na nagtwo-two-time,siguro hindi rin natin sila masisisi.May reason din sila sigurado kung bakit nila nagagawa yon.Pabayaan natin sila at huwag naman natin silang husgahan nang ganoon at ganoon lang,no one is perfect.Let’s just wish/pray for them a peaceful mind para makapag-isip nang maige.

Mali para sa akin ang nabanggit na ang hapon ay pang 2 years lang when it comes to marriage.Unfair naman sa mga hapon na matitino at nagmamahal sa asawang pilipina (o mapaibang lahi man) at sa mga anak nila.Ang hapon/pilipino o mapaibang lahi man,mahalin mo sya,intindihin at ituring mong half of your life,I assure you itututring ka ring ASAWA nya.

Sa katulad kong nakapag-asawa dito,sana’y mapanatili natin ang tiwala sa atin nang mga asawa natin at ilagay palagi sa isip ang pagiging Sacred nang Marriage:halo: .Ganbarimashou:yippe e:

Lola Basyang

hotcake

11-19-2005, 04:44 PM

ganyan tlaga taung mga babae,dati rin akong may asawang hapon,hiwalay na kami pero hinde ko sa pinagsawaan kung di msama ugali nya,ang hapon pang good of 2 years lng ang pagsasama,sa umpisa lang magaling pero pagmatagal na ayan na…hinde ko pinagsisihan na maghiwalay kaming dalawa dahil ang pinalit ko sa kanya eh ang lalaking walang katulad dito sa mundo,kumbaga perfect…5 years na kming magkasama pero ganun pa din sya walang pagbabago…tanga na ko kung papalitan ko pa sya,kahit mraming tukso sa paligid…di sya pinoy latino sya…masarap magmahal ang latino…Sorry kung off topic ang sagot ko, pero gusto ko lang sumagot sa sinabi ni mz. anna. Bago ako sumagot, mz.anna welcome to TF.:slight_smile: Hope you enjoy your stay here.

Here’s my answer…mz. anna di kaya sa sarili mo lang experience pwede i-apply ang sinabi mo. Hindi lahat ng japanese ay good for 2 years lang. Depende siguro sa klase ng pagmamahalan ng mag-asawa ang ikatatagal ng kanilang pagsasama. I am married for 11 years kaya di ako naniniwala na ang asawang hapon ay good for 2 years lang. Good that you found someone that you think is perfect, pero di ba may kasabihan na " nobody is perfect".:smiley: Kaya di mo rin alam kung ano ang mga mangyayari sa mga susunod na araw, taon na darating. Sabi mo masarap magmahal ang Latino, maybe for you… Pero for us who are married to a japanese, masasabi rin namin na masarap din magmahal ang hapon. :slight_smile: Peace po tayo ha…:smiley:

Stacie Fil

11-19-2005, 04:59 PM

Ako,married for 18 years na.Pinag-isipang mabuti ang pag-aasawa ko nanghapon…na hindi yan kanin na pag napaso ay iluluwa…at syempre hindi lang naman ako ang nag-isip nang maige,asawa ko rin.Dahil talagang mahirap ang international marriage.

Kahit na pare-pareho tayong mga Filipinos…kanya-kanya nang opinion.Para sa akin pag pinakasalan mo ang isang babae/lalaki yun ay dahil MAHAL mo sya:love: …me-pride ka o wala kailangan mong i-surrender yon…may tama o mali sa ugali nya ay tatanggapin mo.Hindi lang puro side mo ang titingnan pag may misunderstanding.

At doon sa nabanggit na ibang kababayan natin na nagtwo-two-time,siguro hindi rin natin sila masisisi.May reason din sila sigurado kung bakit nila nagagawa yon.Pabayaan natin sila at huwag naman natin silang husgahan nang ganoon at ganoon lang,no one is perfect.Let’s just wish/pray for them a peaceful mind para makapag-isip nang maige.

Mali para sa akin ang nabanggit na ang hapon ay pang 2 years lang when it comes to marriage.Unfair naman sa mga hapon na matitino at nagmamahal sa asawang pilipina (o mapaibang lahi man) at sa mga anak nila.Ang hapon/pilipino o mapaibang lahi man,mahalin mo sya,intindihin at ituring mong half of your life,I assure you itututring ka ring ASAWA nya.

Sa katulad kong nakapag-asawa dito,sana’y mapanatili natin ang tiwala sa atin nang mga asawa natin at ilagay palagi sa isip ang pagiging Sacred nang Marriage:halo: .Ganbarimashou:yippe e:

Lola Basyang

To some I agree to Lola Basyang, ay Japphi pala,hihihi:D pis po!

Sabi pa nga nang iba , parang bola daw nang bilyar ang magasawa na hindi pa fully polish. May konting friction paminsan-minsan.Sila na rin ang bahalang mag polish, nurture, solidify. Ang importante raw eh matagal na pinagisipin at pinagkasunduan nang dalawa na sa pagbubuklod eh isa na lang ang bilang sa kanila… at period. Duon sa iba na nadugtungan pa nang ibang paragraph at ibang chapter eh, pagkakamali or tama man iyon sa kanila, sadyang kanila lang iyon pati ang aanihin. So sa inyong hardin, kayo ang talagang mamimili at magdidisisyon kung ano ang itatanim. Bukod sa sikap, kailangan parin talaga ang panalangin sa magandang panahon para maging mabulaklak,mabunga at sa magagandang aanihin mo.

We can’t generalize how long a relationship would last just by nationality. I had a friend who recently lost her spouse thru cancer(was married to a japanese too). She si still young and full of life. Now she’s back to our country w/ her husband ashes, but she claimed that if ever she would enter into relationship again, she doubth it would be soon. She holds that the love and life she experienced with her husband is irreplaceable and he will be the last man she’ll cherish untill they meet again in the afterlife. So at this point, only time will tell.

Hungry eyes

11-19-2005, 07:13 PM

para sa tanong mo…marami sa kababayan natin ang may affair…guy n gals…reasons?..mara mi…kung pakaka isipin mo…marihap maiintindihan kung hindi ikaw ang involved dun…maiintindihan mo lang yan…pag ikaw na ang gumawa or dumating sa buhay mo yan …marami sa paligid ko ang ganyan…but never na ng judge ako sa kanila…marami kasi ang nagkakamali na ang akala nila totoong pag ibig yun nararamdaman nila…akala nila yun na yun taong pinaka mamahal nila…hindi mo rin kasi alam na ikaw mismo magbabago or yun better half mo…may kasabihan na…no permanent in this world except changes…kalakaran na yan wala pa tayo sa mundo…nagyari na yan nung panahon pa ng ninuno natin…and all over the globe…bcoz we are only human…mahina sa tukso…nasa atin nalang yun paano tayo iiwas or maiiwasan…get mo…? welcome nga pala sa Tf…i hope na nakatulong ako sa tanong mo…para sa akin hindi naman masama mag tanong…kasi curious ka…happy reading and posting:)

nikita

11-19-2005, 08:20 PM

Napakarami kong kilalang ganyan,mga may asawang hapon pero mga nangangaliwa:scratch : minsan nga pag dumalo kami sa isang okasyon kasama pa nila ang kanilang lover imbes na asawa.hayy,ganyan po talaga ang buhay:brush: wala po tayong magagawa!!:nono:

jilmc

11-19-2005, 10:01 PM

Its their life kumbaga!they are old enough what is wrong or right di ba?At sa mga gumagawa ng miracle hwag kang lang pahuhuli :smiley: dahil walang lihim na pwedeng itago habangbuhay.:cool:

fremsite

11-19-2005, 10:30 PM

it’ s their business ( love affair )… not mine … so i don’t care …:slight_smile:

bhebhe

11-20-2005, 08:03 AM

cguro,d cla kontento sa ka-partner nila kaya ganun…
unsatisfied sila,kasi practical cila,:dogpile:

thermometer

11-20-2005, 08:04 AM

its still alwasys…two to tango…

depp

11-20-2005, 09:12 AM

ika nga buhay nila nila yon,kung saan sila maligaya,malalaki na sila.mahirap magsalita ng o magbigay ng comment…maraming nababago sa mundo in just one split seconds…basta ill pray na sana maging succesful ang married life ko…basta right now maligaya ako…

@mzanna,sometimes talagang ganyan talaga ang buhay.kanya-kanyang kapalaran.kahit sa pilipinas o kahit saang parte ng mundo ay may kasabihan talagang swerte-swerte lang ang pag-aasawa.mayroon nga 1 month lang hiwalay na.pero hindi lang siguro hapon ang me masamang ugali.mapa-pilipino man o mapa-ibang nasyon meron talagang naiiba o kakaibang ugali.siguro napatapat ka lang doon sa 1 hapon na me masamang ugali.ika nga,wag nating lalahatin.

at least ngayon ay maligaya ka at nakatagpo ka ng lalaking nagmamahal sa yo di ba?yan ang swerte mo.:slight_smile:

c2ny2

11-20-2005, 01:37 PM

Katotohanang mahirap tangpapin at intindihan…bilog ang mundo…hayaan nalang natin sila

esturyshade

11-20-2005, 02:04 PM

ganda ng sinabi mo japphi.korrect ka ,sangayon ako sa mga sinabi mo.ako 5 yrs na kong married sa japanese husband ko pero wala akong problema sa kanya ,sya may problema s akin dahil isip bata daw ako ,di bale na daw kasi nga naman daw 9 yrs ang pagitan,pero tama ka,

Jojo

11-20-2005, 02:44 PM

Ilalabas ng Ateneo de Manila University Press yong pangalawang nobela ni Rey Ventura na ang titulo ay Into the Country of Standing Men. I-reprint din nila yong una nya, ang Underground in Japan. Sa pangalawa nabanggit nya yong mga ka-relasyon ng mga Pinoy and Pinay sa bawa’t isa sa Kotoboki, Yokohama. Masakit basahin…pero hahanga ka rin sa tibay nating mga Pinoy.:bricks:

luccia

11-20-2005, 03:20 PM

hello folks! matanong lang yung opinyon ninyo. May narinig akong stories na yung ibang mga kapwang pinay natin na nagasawa ng hapon ay nag-boboyfriend ng pinoy at the same time. Siguro it works the other way around din sa mga pinoy na nagaasawa ng haponesa pero wala akong naririnig. Essentially, totoo ba to in your experience? May hinahanap ba yung mga kapwa Filipinos natin na hindi nakikita sa asawa nila kaya’t nag-two-two time? Suggestions nyo and experiences nyo lang po! Just trying to find answers!

Salamat!

kaya nga may kaliwa at kanan …may tuwid at lihis. nasa atin na lang kung
paano natin mauunawaan o maiintindihan ang kanilang sitwasyon
di mo nmn silang pwedeng pigilan dahil yun ang pinili nila …
its a matter of acceptance and wat u c is wat u get … dats wat we call
society :wink:

japphi

11-20-2005, 03:52 PM

ganda ng sinabi mo japphi.korrect ka ,sangayon ako sa mga sinabi mo.ako 5 yrs na kong married sa japanese husband ko pero wala akong problema sa kanya ,sya may problema s akin dahil isip bata daw ako ,di bale na daw kasi nga naman daw 9 yrs ang pagitan,pero tama ka,

Thanks,kami,within 14 years of marriage namin wala kaming awayan…nagtataka nga kami pareho at kaya naming na-survive nang walang away.Pero dumating din ang bagyo sa pagsasama namin,pero hindi yon naging reason para masabi na ang hapon ay pang 14 years lang.At lalu pa sigurong mag-ga-Ganbaru para hindi masabing pang ___years lang ang mga hapon.
Kayo 9 years ang pagitan ninyo…kami 11 years.Moto ganbarimashou ne…CU again.

myukasky

11-20-2005, 04:01 PM

Thanks,kami,within 14 years of marriage namin wala kaming awayan…nagtataka nga kami pareho at kaya naming na-survive nang walang away.Pero dumating din ang bagyo sa pagsasama namin,pero hindi yon naging reason para masabi na ang hapon ay pang 14 years lang.At lalu pa sigurong mag-ga-Ganbaru para hindi masabing pang ___years lang ang mga hapon.
Kayo 9 years ang pagitan ninyo…kami 11 years.Moto ganbarimashou ne…CU again.

Kami 4 years pa lang ang layo pa ng biyahe namin papunta sa 9 at 14:D . Hindi rin kami nag-aaway at sa 4 years di pa ako nakatikim ng sipa or tadyak.:rolleyes: May mga nakakausap kasi ako asawa nila hapon, kesyo madalas daw sila away. :frowning: :eek: Ganito nga ako sa mga kwento nila, ang nasasabi ko na lang buti nakakayanan nyo? Naalala ko tuloy yung usapan namin ng husband ko, saktan lang niya ako tapos na maliligayang araw nya. Ibig ko sabihin eh maghihiwalay na kami, pero ngayon iba na may anak na kasi kami at ayaw ko masira family namin dahil sa maliit na bagay. Sinasabi ko ngayon sipain man niya ako palabas ng bahay, babalik at babalik ako.:smiley: Sa totoo lang hanga ako sa mga may asawang ibang nasyon, lalo na doon sa mga matatagal na:D :smiley:

aprilluck

11-21-2005, 12:26 AM

First, I want to greet a simple HELLO! to everybody who’ll spend their time reading my
opinion regarding into this topic that seems difficult to discuss , but anyway here is mine.
Probably ,everyone of us have a different lifestyle ,maybe some having a feeling of
satisfaction with a simple life while other’s looking for more ,a few finding for a perfect
relationship but for all we know there is no such perfect relationship ,though we may say
an almost perfect relation like my relation to my husband for 15 years , we discuss things,
we argue, but we greet each other ,we kiss and make up all over again and again 'coz
we both know we need each other inspite of everything ,we talk while we walk our
dogs, we watch a love story (not an x-rated films) once a month ,we join our kids (we
have two boys,14 and 8 years old) watching Harrypotter,Mask 2 ,Spider Man ,ect .These
mean we really try to find a happiness in our home ,and one most important thing to us
is we eat dinner together once or twice a week nowhere but in our home ,it’s a hard
thing for us because my husband comes late and our kids attend extra activities ,but then
we really try to have a nice dinner.Even we encounter problems, I’m very sure ! I’ll
treasure this simple life we have ,Life is not a simple thing but finding joys to the simple
things around us makes our life comfortable .Be thankful for the things you have ,Feel
Blessed for having family ,Some thinks that japanese husband aren’t supportive to their
wife but it’s not true based to my experience we could gain our husband support by
disccussing things to him that we really need their help even to some of household
chores ,believe me ,my husband wash the dishes ,drive my kids to swimming school,
attend PTA meeting if i’m not able to go 'coz of my job .Ask for a help but aviod
complaining .If you want the relation to be strong ,Work for it !!! Finding a new one
is not the answer .My advice ,Talk ,Discuss ,Argue,with your husband means you’re
having a good communication with him and i’m sure you gonna love each other “Kahit
Maputi Na Ang Buhok N’yo”
by: aprilluck

Stacie Fil

11-21-2005, 12:44 AM

First, I want to greet a simple HELLO! My advice ,Talk ,Discuss ,Argue,with your husband means you’re
having a good communication with him and i’m sure you gonna love each other “Kahit
Maputi Na Ang Buhok N’yo”
by: aprilluck

OK ka ate Sharon. Anong balita na ba kay Mr DJ, does he still play your love song? Nakaka- miss din yon ano? Parang high school life/days
Ahahaay, mukhang mali yata ang napagtanungan ko.:smiley: Joke lang po.:hihi: :bonk:

depp

11-21-2005, 07:41 AM

OK ka ate Sharon. Anong balita na ba kay Mr DJ, does he still play your love song? Nakaka- miss din yon ano? Parang high school life/days
Ahahaay, mukhang mali yata ang napagtanungan ko.:smiley: Joke lang po.:hihi: :bonk:

hi stacie fil?naalala ko ring bigla high school life ah.ang walang sawang kinakanta nung high school pa ng mga kaklase ko.pero di ko kinakanta kasi di ko idol si sharon.un nga lang ang ganda ng kanta.mukhang di tayo nagkakalayo ng edad ah?:smiley: oooppsss,off tooic po.sensha na.:slight_smile:

esturyshade

11-21-2005, 02:17 PM

aaaaaaaaayyyyy…touc h ako sa sinabi mo.napakanta tuloy ako…kung tayoy matanda na sana may teeth pa rin tayo,ikagat mo,ingiti mo,ay love pa rin kita,makuha mo pa kayang akoy hagkan at yakapain ,uuuhhhuuhh…hangga ng sa pagtanda natin,

Stacie Fil

11-22-2005, 01:00 AM

hi stacie fil?naalala ko ring bigla high school life ah.ang walang sawang kinakanta nung high school pa ng mga kaklase ko.pero di ko kinakanta kasi di ko idol si sharon.un nga lang ang ganda ng kanta.mukhang di tayo nagkakalayo ng edad ah?:smiley: oooppsss,off tooic po.sensha na.:slight_smile:

sensha na rin, respond ko lang:D

Hi rin depp san. OK lang siguro to sing those songs kahit hindi natin kilala ang singer. As long it makes you smile,bright and bubbly. That already gives meaning and justice to the song. And I guess your right, mga ilang buwan lang siguro ang pagitan natin.:slight_smile:

Stacie Fil

11-22-2005, 01:11 AM

aaaaaaaaayyyyy…touc h ako sa sinabi mo.napakanta tuloy ako…kung tayoy matanda na sana may teeth pa rin tayo,ikagat mo,ingiti mo,ay love pa rin kita,makuha mo pa kayang akoy hagkan at yakapain ,uuuhhhuuhh…hangga ng sa pagtanda natin,

Hi esturyshade san. You sound real bright and bubbly, I like that. Paki clarify naman sa akin ang meaning nung isang word mo doon at medyo excited yata hindi ko ma gets ang meaning. Medyo broad.:rolleyes: :lol:

obet2

11-22-2005, 12:24 PM

pinoy ako,masarap daw magmahal ang pinoy kasi…:confus ed: :smiley: :stuck_out_tongue:

docomo

11-22-2005, 12:54 PM

pinoy ako,masarap daw magmahal ang pinoy kasi…:confus ed: :smiley: :stuck_out_tongue:

yebah ! :stuck_out_tongue:

kendi

11-22-2005, 01:15 PM

you said it right thermometer…
iba’t ibang sitwasyon yan so let’s not judge the people around us base from what we see or hear for there might be some things that we don’t know.

importante nmn e, you’re not the one involved in that kind of situation.

depp

11-22-2005, 03:25 PM

pinoy ako,masarap daw magmahal ang pinoy kasi…:confus ed: :smiley: :stuck_out_tongue:

kasi…kay a marami ang minamahal …correction. .hindi po lahat ha?pis…

goodboy

11-22-2005, 04:08 PM

hello folks! matanong lang yung opinyon ninyo. May narinig akong stories na yung ibang mga kapwang pinay natin na nagasawa ng hapon ay nag-boboyfriend ng pinoy at the same time. Siguro it works the other way around din sa mga pinoy na nagaasawa ng haponesa pero wala akong naririnig. Essentially, totoo ba to in your experience? May hinahanap ba yung mga kapwa Filipinos natin na hindi nakikita sa asawa nila kaya’t nag-two-two time? Suggestions nyo and experiences nyo lang po! Just trying to find answers!

Salamat!

Dear Jakolite(nice name bro) here is my opinion, Having an extra marital affair can be found not only in Japan but in all cultures and societies around the world. Part of human nature, I believe flirting or having extra relationship outside marriage is just a basic instinct maging babae man o lalake. Extra relationship outside marriage sometimes is much more than just a bit of fun and excitement beyond our daily routine, generally some people obey these call instinctively without being conscious of doing so until they become aware of the rules when someone commits a breach of this etiquette and soon found out that they have just made an embarrassing mistake. Lets face it, there is no perfect relationship at all, some people do these act maybe because the relationship has no strong foundation or were married with the wrong person, perhaps, or marriage at an inappropriate time or place. I believe one of the finest solution is to be sensitive with each others feelings, open communication and most specially RESPECT. A good husband or wife wouldn’t do these if they have respect to each other. Yun lang po * smiles*

kathy

11-22-2005, 07:49 PM

Dear Jakolite(nice name bro) here is my opinion, Having an extra marital affair can be found not only in Japan but in all cultures and societies around the world. Part of human nature, I believe flirting or having extra relationship outside marriage is just a basic instinct maging babae man o lalake. Extra relationship outside marriage sometimes is much more than just a bit of fun and excitement beyond our daily routine, generally some people obey these call instinctively without being conscious of doing so until they become aware of the rules when someone commits a breach of this etiquette and soon found out that they have just made an embarrassing mistake. Lets face it, there is no perfect relationship at all, some people do these act maybe because the relationship has no strong foundation or were married with the wrong person, perhaps, or marriage at an inappropriate time or place. I believe one of the finest solution is to be sensitive with each others feelings, open communication and most specially RESPECT. A good husband or wife wouldn’t do these if they have respect to each other. Yun lang po * smiles*

hello sa lahat …tagal ko di napasyal dito eh:O sorry po medyo busy lang:) ! dami na member ah…anyway back to topic…as goodboy says correct yun:D sinabi nyo na lahat eh wala na ko masabi ,basta mind your own business…
nobody is perfect…so kung di natin ginagawa ,fine:p …lets pray dun sa sa mga nabubulagan!LIFE is beautiful …live it to the fullest!

docomo

11-22-2005, 11:30 PM

… Love cannot be controlled : It either happens or it doesn’t …
What’s really required in a relationship is not the huge amount of energy we expend obsessing about it but a huge leap of faith , blind trust , and understanding of the fact that there are no guarantees…
Sometimes we’re able to make the leap successfully , and sometimes we’re not… It’s no wonder that while we’re standing on the edge , we behave so crazily :slight_smile:

Stacie Fil

11-23-2005, 11:42 AM

Dear Jakolite(nice name bro) here is my opinion, Having an extra marital affair can be found not only in Japan but in all cultures and societies around the world. Part of human nature, I believe flirting or having extra relationship outside marriage is just a basic instinct maging babae man o lalake. Extra relationship outside marriage sometimes is much more than just a bit of fun and excitement beyond our daily routine, generally some people obey these call instinctively without being conscious of doing so until they become aware of the rules when someone commits a breach of this etiquette and soon found out that they have just made an embarrassing mistake. Lets face it, there is no perfect relationship at all, some people do these act maybe because the relationship has no strong foundation or were married with the wrong person, perhaps, or marriage at an inappropriate time or place. I believe one of the finest solution is to be sensitive with each others feelings, open communication and most specially RESPECT. A good husband or wife wouldn’t do these if they have respect to each other. Yun lang po * smiles*

Hi goodboy,

You have some point, but forgive me if there are also some I quite disagree(No disrespect meant, OK?). It maybe part of human, but not really basic as to consider. I guess what you are trying to says is that, search for companionship and love is basic, but to flirt which you equate to pursue extra relationship outside marriage is neither basic nor true for all.

Urge maybe strong, but always before that action there’s already a conflict in one’s mind before getting on. Means the basic is to pursue good, yet most of the time overpowered or shaded as to go on, i quote “until they become aware of the rules when someone commits a breach of this etiquette and soon found out that they have just made an embarrassing mistake”.

Tulad siguro nung kanta, “Gusto kong bumait, pero di ko magawa”. Sure there are no perfect relationship. Thats why we have to first mature, both to work hard for it. Perfection lies not in the beginning but after a looooong time of sweat and endurance to reach mastery. After creating a harmony as a second nature to both. Kaya nga ang pinapalakpakan natin eh yung mga graduate,accomplishe d, professionals, si Lolo at Lola,atbp.

Yes it may not be for all. Specially for those who quit to do so. But I guess thats the goal. We can’t judge anybody or decide for them. Iba-iba ang pangalan natin, means we are all unique. Each one has each own way to go, a bridge to cross and a mountain to climbed upon. Parang marathon daw. Hoping everyone could reach the end or get to the finish line.

Tama ka,empathy and respect are some spice to whats cookin’. :slight_smile:

kendi

11-23-2005, 02:13 PM

i guess, if you chose to be into a relationship whether marriage or just bf/gf thing you MUST (as goodboy said) RESPECT your partner. Whatever the situation is…no WHAT IFs…no BUTs…stick to one ka lang dapat…sana.
DOn’t let yourself be the reason for someone to get hurt.
If you can’t bear to be in a relationship with your present someone, let go of him/her.

Actually, I got friends who also became unfaithful to their partners. At first, I gave them pieces advice which I think are the ideal things to do. But I kept on hearing the overuse lines “I’m not perfect”, “lalaki lang ako”…Later on, napagod din si kendi… kaya ang advice ko na lang e…“Fine! wag ka na lang magpapahuli”
:cool:

Chibi

11-23-2005, 10:20 PM

i guess, if you chose to be into a relationship whether marriage or just bf/gf thing you MUST (as goodboy said) RESPECT your partner. Whatever the situation is…no WHAT IFs…no BUTs…stick to one ka lang dapat…sana.
DOn’t let yourself be the reason for someone to get hurt.
If you can’t bear to be in a relationship with your present someone, let go of him/her.

Actually, I got friends who also became unfaithful to their partners. At first, I gave them pieces advice which I think are the ideal things to do. But I kept on hearing the overuse lines “I’m not perfect”, “lalaki lang ako”…Later on, napagod din si kendi… kaya ang advice ko na lang e…“Fine hwg ka na lang magpapahuli”

:cool:

At sana hwag mo rin ako mahuli!!!hikhikhikhk !!pero saken foul yan!!!ganito lang yan eh!!
Kaya mo???well… kaya ko rin!!!ganti-ganti lang yan!!

lemonade

11-24-2005, 09:34 PM

dear makulit,

well, it depends on how they drive the relationship…

there are people who ae not just satisfied with one partner and craves for another…

perhaps, they are not a good match if not better, to stay together…that ends to looking out for/ or being attracted to another…

it just so happen that we speak of another language and diversified by different cultures…but rich or poor, young and old, the same happens around the globe!

honda

11-24-2005, 09:57 PM

:slight_smile: i think it’s different if PINOY…o ibang klase ang PINOY i ka nga…maybe some PINay do that…co’z they get married to a old japanese guy…on my case im married to a japanese lady…as far we still it’s other…and that 's LOVE i ka nga…:slight_smile:

depp

11-25-2005, 10:23 AM

ang mundo ay bilog,minsan nasa ibabaw,minsan nasa itaas.kaya nga misan ang utak ay napupunta kung saan-saan.kung ano man ang dahilan nilat nagagawa nila yun ay dahil sapagkat tayo ay tao lamang.ika nga nga natutukso,nakakagawa ng mali,etc.ang magagawa na lang natin kung may kaibigan at kamag-anak tayo na gumagawa ng ganon ay magbigay na lang tayo ng payo sa kanila.:slight_smile:

depp

11-25-2005, 11:43 AM

:slight_smile: i think it’s different if PINOY…o ibang klase ang PINOY i ka nga…maybe some PINay do that…co’z they get married to a old japanese guy…on my case im married to a japanese lady…as far we still it’s other…and that 's LOVE i ka nga…:slight_smile:

ooooppppsss…wat do you mean?matanda kasi ang japanese guy kaya nangangaliwa?some pinay do that?its thats the real reason?how come you said that.me kilala ka o naka-encounter ka?if some pinay ay iyan ang reason maybe its none of our business.pero parang unfair sa iba na me asawang me edad na,matatatak sa isipan ng babasa na some of d pinays ganun?case by case yata yan.kahit bata o me edad,me nangangaliwa at majime.its their business,anyway…

in your case your lucky to find one…

kendi

11-25-2005, 12:17 PM

At sana hwag mo rin ako mahuli!!!hikhikhikhk !!pero saken foul yan!!!ganito lang yan eh!!
Kaya mo???well… kaya ko rin!!!ganti-ganti lang yan!!

:biglaugh: nice one chibi!

Raiden

11-25-2005, 12:21 PM

hello folks! matanong lang yung opinyon ninyo. May narinig akong stories na yung ibang mga kapwang pinay natin na nagasawa ng hapon ay nag-boboyfriend ng pinoy at the same time. Siguro it works the other way around din sa mga pinoy na nagaasawa ng haponesa pero wala akong naririnig. Essentially, totoo ba to in your experience? May hinahanap ba yung mga kapwa Filipinos natin na hindi nakikita sa asawa nila kaya’t nag-two-two time? Suggestions nyo and experiences nyo lang po! Just trying to find answers!

Salamat!

It doesn’t really matter to whom anybody is married to. If the reason for marrying someone is anything but love, then that person is predisposed to having an affair with someone else.

There is a very fine line between being in love and being in lust. The trick in choosing the right person is to identify which of the two is what you truly feel.

Just my two cents. :slight_smile:

DJchot

11-25-2005, 01:05 PM

buti pa kaming mga singles :wink:

sabi ng ibang manhid ng mga nanay, basta umuuwi pa rin daw sa gabi ang mister nila, ok na yon. :smiley:

myukasky

11-25-2005, 01:41 PM

buti pa kaming mga singles :wink:

sabi ng ibang manhid ng mga nanay, basta umuuwi pa rin daw sa gabi ang mister nila, ok na yon. :smiley:

Naku ganon ba DJchot? Sa akin di puwede yannnnnnnnn:rolleyes : Malate nga lang ng uwi asawa ko nakacall na ako or email ko sya;) Sabi ko naman sa kanya kung ayaw na nya sabihin para malaya sya sa gusto nya:D Eh ano pa magagawa ko kung ayaw na nya sa akin.:frowning: Pero syempre kung ako tatanungin ayaw ko, kung ayaw naman nya wala na ako magagawa di ba?

katty0531

11-25-2005, 03:27 PM

buti pa kaming mga singles :wink:

sabi ng ibang manhid ng mga nanay, basta umuuwi pa rin daw sa gabi ang mister nila, ok na yon. :smiley:

hehehehehe, ganoon?? ano ba yan, hindi pwede sa akin yan…inom nalang ako ng Baygon.wakekekekeeke k…

DJchot

11-25-2005, 04:01 PM

Naku ganon ba DJchot? Sa akin di puwede yannnnnnnnn:rolleyes : Malate nga lang ng uwi asawa ko nakacall na ako or email ko sya;) Sabi ko naman sa kanya kung ayaw na nya sabihin para malaya sya sa gusto nya:D Eh ano pa magagawa ko kung ayaw na nya sa akin.:frowning: Pero syempre kung ako tatanungin ayaw ko, kung ayaw naman nya wala na ako magagawa di ba?

hehehehehe, ganoon?? ano ba yan, hindi pwede sa akin yan…inom nalang ako ng Baygon.wakekekekeeke k…

ganon daw e. wag lang daw sila papahuli. pero yung mga hunks dito gaya nila gabby at fisher, legal talaga mambabae yan. yung mga misis pa nga nila ang bumibili ng condom para sa kanila para daw di sila makakuha ng sakit. Aayyyy! :shutup: (bakit di ko ma edit? :smiley: )

pero lihis ata sa topic tong kwento ko a.
jowang pinoy pala…

true ang sabi ng iba, di lang naman sa pinay-japanese nangyayari yang kaliwaan. kahit kanino.
ganon talaga e.

pero marami nga akong kilalang married pinay to japanese na may mga jowa ring pinoy. ang bobongga ng bahay dito sa pinas :D. kelan kaya uuwi si kumare? :eek:

myukasky

11-25-2005, 05:00 PM

ganon daw e. wag lang daw sila papahuli. pero yung mga hunks dito gaya nila gabby at fisher, legal talaga mambabae yan. yung mga misis pa nga nila ang bumibili ng condom para sa kanila para daw di sila makakuha ng sakit. Aayyyy! :shutup: (bakit di ko ma edit? :smiley: )

pero lihis ata sa topic tong kwento ko a.
jowang pinoy pala…

true ang sabi ng iba, di lang naman sa pinay-japanese nangyayari yang kaliwaan. kahit kanino.
ganon talaga e.

pero marami nga akong kilalang married pinay to japanese na may mga jowa ring pinoy. ang bobongga ng bahay dito sa pinas :D. kelan kaya uuwi si kumare? :eek:

Siguro DJchot dyan sila masaya.:smiley: Ako kasi masaya na sa isang asawa at dalawang anak;) :slight_smile: :slight_smile:

katty0531

11-25-2005, 08:08 PM

ganon daw e. wag lang daw sila papahuli. pero yung mga hunks dito gaya nila gabby at fisher, legal talaga mambabae yan. yung mga misis pa nga nila ang bumibili ng condom para sa kanila para daw di sila makakuha ng sakit. Aayyyy! :shutup: (bakit di ko ma edit? :smiley: )

pero lihis ata sa topic tong kwento ko a.
jowang pinoy pala…

true ang sabi ng iba, di lang naman sa pinay-japanese nangyayari yang kaliwaan. kahit kanino.
ganon talaga e.

pero marami nga akong kilalang married pinay to japanese na may mga jowa ring pinoy. ang bobongga ng bahay dito sa pinas :D. kelan kaya uuwi si kumare? :eek:

Ang lakas talaga ng radar mo DJchot! wakkekekeke…hindi ako nakatikim ng pagmamahal ng Pinoy pero hindi ko na inasam, papasalamat na ako sa Dios at binigyan ako ng Hapon, wala talaga akong interes sa Pinoy, honestly, at lalo na mag kabit, hiwalayan nalang ang asawa para hindi matawag na nangangabit.

DaiRyouKoJin

11-25-2005, 10:31 PM

uy masarap naman magmahal ang pinoy guys eh :wink: nasa sa babae na lang talaga. kasi kung hindi mo naman bibigyan ng reason para mambabae ang jowa mo, wala naman siguro mangyayaring kaliwaan :slight_smile:

pero alam nyo ba na may rules ang mga kalalakihan naten…sabi nila pag may “binebebe” daw :
rule #1 - Wag mag pahuli
pag nahuli…
rule#2 - Wag Aamin
pag nangulit si misis…
rule # 3 - wag pa rin aamin
eh kaso huling-huli na talaga…
rule#4 - MAndamay ( ex: " eh baket, di lang naman ako ang gumagawa nun ah…si pareng chot nga matagal na sila nung girlalu nya eh…" )
rule #5 - bumili ng banig ( ayus! sa kankungan ang bagsak! outside the kulambu!)

pero kidding aside…sa mag asawa dapat sa simula pa lang at nararamdaman na may wall na nabubuo, dapat pinaguusapan kagad. wag ng patagalin. Pag nagkasala si babae / lalake matutung magpatawad. nature kasi ng tao yung hindi marunong makuntento…ewan ko ba…pero siguro maging matatag lang ang faith sa ITAAS, walang mapapariwara :wink:

( nasa topic pa rin ba ako??? :confused: )

fisher

11-25-2005, 11:38 PM

At sana hwag mo rin ako mahuli!!!hikhikhikhk !!pero saken foul yan!!!ganito lang yan eh!!
Kaya mo???well… kaya ko rin!!!ganti-ganti lang yan!!

Hala bira chibi! Hala bira! Sige banatan mo kaya natin ang kaya nila! Banat ng banat!He,he,he,he,he ,:smiley:

Heto lang ang masasabi ko: Huwag magsalita ng tapos! Kesyo ikaw ay matatag at honest sa partner mo,sila naman ay madaling matangay at kaagad sumasama sa iba? Hey, wait a minute! In a second baka matagpuan ninyo na lang na nasa sitwasyon kayo na hindi ninyo akalain na darating sa inyo. And I don’t believe na da best magmahal ang pinoy o pinay.Baket, wala bang foreigner na best din kung magmahal? Excuse us who married our foreign spouses.:mad:
Chibi,awatin mo ako! Galit na ang kalbong kulot:banghead: :hellfire: :fence: :karate: Pis tayo mga pards and mards.

fisher

11-25-2005, 11:47 PM

ganon daw e. wag lang daw sila papahuli. pero yung mga hunks dito gaya nila gabby at fisher, legal talaga mambabae yan. yung mga misis pa nga nila ang bumibili ng condom para sa kanila para daw di sila makakuha ng sakit. Aayyyy! :shutup: (bakit di ko ma edit? :smiley: )

pero lihis ata sa topic tong kwento ko a.
jowang pinoy pala…

true ang sabi ng iba, di lang naman sa pinay-japanese nangyayari yang kaliwaan. kahit kanino.
ganon talaga e.

pero marami nga akong kilalang married pinay to japanese na may mga jowa ring pinoy. ang bobongga ng bahay dito sa pinas :D. kelan kaya uuwi si kumare? :eek:

Gud ibning sa iyo pareng chot! Ayos! Nandito ka na magkakasarapan na sa umpugan ng ulo nito:banghead: Tumpak ang sinabi mo legal kami ni gabby pagdating diyan he,he,he,he,he,.Pagb alik mo dito gala tayo ah:D . Sino ang sinasabi mong “kailan kaya uuwi si kumare?”. Hala ka may itinatago ka yata diyan ah ibulong mo naman sa aken.Sige na… ikaw rin baka hindi na kita isasama sa Don Quixote:D :smiley: :smiley: .

kendi

11-26-2005, 03:25 PM

rule#4 - MAndamay ( ex: " eh baket, di lang naman ako ang gumagawa nun ah…si pareng chot nga matagal na sila nung girlalu nya eh…" )

patay ka chot! ikaw ang # s list ng madadamay…buking ka he esmi :stuck_out_tongue:

jakolite

11-28-2005, 12:14 PM

Kapwa Timog-ers,

Sori d ako naka respond agad dahil kakabalik ko lang galing conference. Nabasa ko lahat ng mga responses to the thread at medyo napahiya ako. Di ko naman sinasadya na magkaconflict dahil sa tanong ka na ito. Yung lang nga nakakita ako ng mga ganito and was just curious for reasons why and kung isolated incident lang ito sa lugar ko.
Pero every once and a while healthy pagusapan ang kontrobersya. Maganda namang magkaroon ng intelligent conversation d ba?:smiley:

docomo

11-28-2005, 12:38 PM

Kapwa Timog-ers,
Pero every once and a while healthy pagusapan ang kontrobersya. Maganda namang magkaroon ng intelligent conversation d ba?:smiley:

oo naman poh:)

DaiRyouKoJin

11-28-2005, 06:45 PM

oo naman poh:)
tulad ng sinabi ni pareng docomo…ok naman eh, dami nga rin ako natutunan.
@ jakolite medyo nagkakaron lang ako ng alanganin…nahihirap an ako “i-handle” ang “handle” mows! kelangan tama ang pag type, pag nagkamali mayayari akow! hehehe

gabby

11-29-2005, 12:20 AM

hello folks! matanong lang yung opinyon ninyo. May narinig akong stories na yung ibang mga kapwang pinay natin na nagasawa ng hapon ay nag-boboyfriend ng pinoy at the same time. Siguro it works the other way around din sa mga pinoy na nagaasawa ng haponesa pero wala akong naririnig. Essentially, totoo ba to in your experience? May hinahanap ba yung mga kapwa Filipinos natin na hindi nakikita sa asawa nila kaya’t nag-two-two time? Suggestions nyo and experiences nyo lang po! Just trying to find answers!

Salamat!

I know a lot of people who are into that mess. But why should we care? It is their lives not ours. Different folks different strokes. Just leave them alone.

gabby

11-29-2005, 12:21 AM

isang katotohanang di na nabago sa paglipas ng panahon.

I couldn’t agree more.

gabby

11-29-2005, 12:39 AM

Sorry kung off topic ang sagot ko, pero gusto ko lang sumagot sa sinabi ni mz. anna. Bago ako sumagot, mz.anna welcome to TF.:slight_smile: Hope you enjoy your stay here.

Here’s my answer…mz. anna di kaya sa sarili mo lang experience pwede i-apply ang sinabi mo. Hindi lahat ng japanese ay good for 2 years lang. Depende siguro sa klase ng pagmamahalan ng mag-asawa ang ikatatagal ng kanilang pagsasama. I am married for 11 years kaya di ako naniniwala na ang asawang hapon ay good for 2 years lang. Good that you found someone that you think is perfect, pero di ba may kasabihan na " nobody is perfect".:smiley: Kaya di mo rin alam kung ano ang mga mangyayari sa mga susunod na araw, taon na darating. Sabi mo masarap magmahal ang Latino, maybe for you… Pero for us who are married to a japanese, masasabi rin namin na masarap din magmahal ang hapon. :slight_smile: Peace po tayo ha…:smiley:

Hotcake take it easy sweety. There are a good number of cases about Jakol’s inquiry. This happened probably because love wasn’t really involved when they excahnged vows. It’s more on visa to get yen and end to families in the RP. Of course other reasons are possible. Mz.Anna’s experience is her own. You should be happy that it is not happening to you. Mz. Anna deserves to be happy don’t try to scare her about the unknown future. You yourself are not sure if your husband now will stay honest to you and your marriage forever. Are you? The river is still flowing sweety. You don’t know if your husband still wants to live with you two years from now. Do you?

gabby

11-29-2005, 12:51 AM

… Love cannot be controlled : It either happens or it doesn’t …
What’s really required in a relationship is not the huge amount of energy we expend obsessing about it but a huge leap of faith , blind trust , and understanding of the fact that there are no guarantees…
Sometimes we’re able to make the leap successfully , and sometimes we’re not… It’s no wonder that while we’re standing on the edge , we behave so crazily :slight_smile:

You hit it bull’s eye Pareng Docomo. There are no guarantees and sometimes we act out of our boxes. In my case I know when I act out of my box. Ayoko nang sabit. So I always draw the line at something that I know would pull my feet into the abyss and float in the limbo. But still there is no guarantee . . . if my line is strong . . . ang tukso ay tukso kaya ayokong magsalita nang patapus.

Cheers Docomo Mate:)

gabby

11-29-2005, 12:55 AM

At sana hwag mo rin ako mahuli!!!hikhikhikhk !!pero saken foul yan!!!ganito lang yan eh!!
Kaya mo???well… kaya ko rin!!!ganti-ganti lang yan!!

Ito talagang malandi na ito. Talagang palaban. Ganyan nga huwag patalo ano. :stuck_out_tongue: :slight_smile:

gabby

11-29-2005, 01:09 AM

ooooppppsss…wat do you mean?matanda kasi ang japanese guy kaya nangangaliwa?some pinay do that?its thats the real reason?how come you said that.me kilala ka o naka-encounter ka?if some pinay ay iyan ang reason maybe its none of our business.pero parang unfair sa iba na me asawang me edad na,matatatak sa isipan ng babasa na some of d pinays ganun?case by case yata yan.kahit bata o me edad,me nangangaliwa at majime.its their business,anyway…

in your case your lucky to find one…

The sad fact Depp is . . . it isn’t just some. It is a definitive MANY cases. My humble estimate is four out of ten. I know because I have ears on the ground. But then, the bottom line is, as you said, it is their own business not ours. Kaya iyang si Jakol dapat batukan iyan {Jakol mate I am just kidding}Nakiki-alam sa buhay nang me buhay. Unless of course Jakol is making a case study. But then again it is very stupid to do a research on social problem about a highly personal and private matter on public places like the internet. I wonder why this thread is still open?:frowning:

gabby

11-29-2005, 01:16 AM

ganon daw e. wag lang daw sila papahuli. pero yung mga hunks dito gaya nila gabby at fisher, legal talaga mambabae yan. yung mga misis pa nga nila ang bumibili ng condom para sa kanila para daw di sila makakuha ng sakit. Aayyyy! :shutup: (bakit di ko ma edit? :smiley: )

pero lihis ata sa topic tong kwento ko a.
jowang pinoy pala…

true ang sabi ng iba, di lang naman sa pinay-japanese nangyayari yang kaliwaan. kahit kanino.
ganon talaga e.

pero marami nga akong kilalang married pinay to japanese na may mga jowa ring pinoy. ang bobongga ng bahay dito sa pinas :D. kelan kaya uuwi si kumare? :eek:

Ito talaga o ikaw lang yata ang si-sheran ko non ini-announced mo pa! Heh he he . . . Okay lang uy. Anong magagawa ko maba-it at practical ang misis ko. Kumusta na ang Manila mo uy? Hindi ba maginaw diyan? Ang init-init sa Japan ngayon gusto ko na ring umuwi.

depp

11-29-2005, 09:44 AM

The sad fact Depp is . . . it isn’t just some. It is a definitive MANY cases. My humble estimate is four out of ten. I know because I have ears on the ground. But then, the bottom line is, as you said, it is their own business not ours. Kaya iyang si Jakol dapat batukan iyan {Jakol mate I am just kidding}Nakiki-alam sa buhay nang me buhay. Unless of course Jakol is making a case study. But then again it is very stupid to do a research on social problem about a highly personal and private matter on public places like the internet. I wonder why this thread is still open?:frowning:

oh,really?di kasi ako lumalabas ng lungga ko e,kaya wala akong naririninig na balita o chismis sa tabi-tabi.hehe.:smiley:

pero kahit bata o matnda ang partners di ka rin talaga makasisiguro kung nangangaliwa o mangangaliwa di ba?kaya ako kahit bata pa asawa ko,bata pa ba un?40 yrs.old.?di rin ako nakakasiguro.i did not born yesterday.ika nga,bilog ang mundo.nasa kamay mo ngyon sa isang iglap mawawala.hhaayyyyy,d ats life ika nga:rolleyes:

docomo

11-29-2005, 10:54 AM

I know a lot of people who are into that mess. But why should we care? It is their lives not ours. Different folks different strokes. Just leave them alone.

I have to agree, sometimes certain subjects should be left alone … “I voted” …end of the story for me !:slight_smile:

miles

11-29-2005, 05:46 PM

malungkot sa japan, naranasan ko yan almost 1 year ago, pro di ako naghanap at di ako naghintay. pero may dumating na nagpasaya sa akin. ganon yon. iwasan man natin kung talagang don patungo wala tayong magagawa. so enjoy and be happy what matters comes, ok ba sis?

docomo

11-29-2005, 06:37 PM

malungkot sa japan, naranasan ko yan almost 1 year ago, pro di ako naghanap at di ako naghintay. pero may dumating na nagpasaya sa akin. ganon yon. iwasan man natin kung talagang don patungo wala tayong magagawa. so enjoy and be happy what matters comes, ok ba sis?

… That’s an honest answer… :slight_smile:

Little Johnny

11-29-2005, 06:50 PM

… That’s an honest answer… :slight_smile:

preng docomo, kung sayo mangyari yun, may dumating na nakapag-pasaya sa 'yo… enjoy and be happy ka rin ba gawa ni miles?:smiley: :stuck_out_tongue:

Hungry eyes

11-29-2005, 06:56 PM

malungkot sa japan, naranasan ko yan almost 1 year ago, pro di ako naghanap at di ako naghintay. pero may dumating na nagpasaya sa akin. ganon yon. iwasan man natin kung talagang don patungo wala tayong magagawa. so enjoy and be happy what matters comes, ok ba sis?

Sabi nga nila life is short…so why you pour your life in sadness…?come what may…? right again…basta ba kaya dalhin…:smiley:

docomo

11-29-2005, 06:56 PM

preng docomo, kung sayo mangyari yun, may dumating na nakapag-pasaya sa 'yo… enjoy and be happy ka rin ba gawa ni miles?:smiley: :stuck_out_tongue:

…pang showbiz ang tanong hehehe, kailan ka pa naging si BOY ABUNDA ??:eek: :stuck_out_tongue:

Little Johnny

11-29-2005, 07:05 PM

…pang showbiz ang tanong hehehe, kailan ka pa naging si BOY ABUNDA ??:eek: :stuck_out_tongue:

ngaun pa lang… hehehe… nasa harap mo ngayon ang magic mirror… what do you see? sagot!:smiley: :stuck_out_tongue:

Chibi

11-29-2005, 11:18 PM

ngaun pa lang… hehehe… nasa harap mo ngayon ang magic mirror… what do you see? sagot!:smiley: :stuck_out_tongue:
sinungaling na magic mirror…kaw daw nakita nya!!!:smiley: hikhikhik!!!

gabby

11-29-2005, 11:25 PM

sinungaling na magic mirror…kaw daw nakita nya!!!:smiley: hikhikhik!!!

LOL:D Meaning??? ESEP! ESEP ESEP!:stuck_out_tongue:

docomo

11-30-2005, 12:13 AM

ngaun pa lang… hehehe… nasa harap mo ngayon ang magic mirror… what do you see? sagot!:smiley: :stuck_out_tongue:

… that’s not the point so let’s not talk about me :slight_smile:

gabby

11-30-2005, 12:50 AM

… I saw “reality” base on what miles posted , I find it an honest answer so to speak …

I don’t quite know if I was hinting at the “need” for a human embrace, though… It could be anything , but the fact remains that whatever it maybe it isn’t there, nor has it been… But that’s not the point so let’s not talk about me :slight_smile:

WOW! As in WoW! This is heavy. Doco Pare this is really a mind blowing post. :slight_smile: :wink:

docomo

11-30-2005, 01:11 AM

WOW! As in WoW! This is heavy. Doco Pare this is really a mind blowing post. :slight_smile: :wink:

why did you say so? what’s on your mind? ( sure ka na gets mo?):stuck_out_tongue:

taki

11-30-2005, 12:39 PM

I would say that men are polygamous by nature. As for women, they can be polygamous in a sense that they are longing for something their partner couldn`t provide. Hence, the case of infedility within a relationship exists. We are just humans, and true indeed, illegal act sometimes makes us happy.

In reality, most Filipinos marry Japanese nationals for personal purposes other than love. Although I am not so familiar with the Japanese culture but according to my own observation and interrogation, i am aware how Japanese men treat their Filipina wives. Although this is definitely not applicable to everyone. That is why sometimes we cannot just blame Filipinas having involved with another man. Same is true with Filipinos. And if this happens, it maybe advisable to keep it as discreet as possible. You may notice within the Filipino community how a rumor flies so fast.

For now, my personal opinion is that, we shouldn`t commit into a serious relationship with a married partner. Not here in Japan. Just enjoy life and look for a very good company. Unfortunately, i seldom found one yet.

DJchot

11-30-2005, 12:58 PM

malungkot sa japan, naranasan ko yan almost 1 year ago, pro di ako naghanap at di ako naghintay. pero may dumating na nagpasaya sa akin. ganon yon. iwasan man natin kung talagang don patungo wala tayong magagawa. so enjoy and be happy what matters comes, ok ba sis?

ito ba yung “tao lamang na nadadarang din?” :slight_smile:

Sabi nga nila life is short…so why you pour your life in sadness…?come what may…? right again…basta ba kaya dalhin…:smiley:

yan ang kabayan ko hehe :smiley:

sinungaling na magic mirror…kaw daw nakita nya!!!:smiley: hikhikhik!!!

i smell…beef stew (wala lang, kumakain lang ako ngayon wehehe :smiley: )

mOtt_erU

09-08-2006, 11:26 PM

.Mochiron, hindi lahat ng Pinay ganyan.
pero , personaly may kilala akong ganyan…
sa una okey …pero in the long run , hindi pangmatagalan syempre at hindi tama.
…the sad thing is sa paghahangad ng Pinay na ito ng 2 relasyon…eh parehong nawala:(

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