Rough Spots of a Relationship

docomo

11-02-2005, 10:14 PM

Every relationship experiences some rough times … There will be situations that neither of you can avoid,which may break or make the relationship even stronger —depending on how you handle them…( be it with your husband/wife …boyfriend/girlfriend … the other party or what we so called soulmate ) voice it out here … :slight_smile:

Flippy Aze

11-02-2005, 10:21 PM

docomo, umpisahan mo kaya para masaya, hehe…:lol:

docomo

11-02-2005, 10:22 PM

docomo, umpisahan mo kaya para masaya, hehe…:lol:

inumpisahan ko na nga po eh… sundan nyo po muna… :stuck_out_tongue:

Flippy Aze

11-02-2005, 10:26 PM

I meant, start sharing your own experience, definitely you have one…:confused:

fisher

11-02-2005, 10:55 PM

Pareng docomo at flipsy aze, nagkakahiyaan pa kayo ah! Gust n’yo ako na umpisa?Nyaahhh!!! ayaw ko nga!Baka malaman n’yo tuloy na ako ang laging naapi ng mga bebot.Sige na 'preng docomo tutal ikaw ang nagbukas ng topic eh!Bago mo malaman amin eh dapat kami alam sa’yo…bbwwaaah hhhhaaaaaahhhhhhhaaa aa!!!.Eh,e h,eh, di ba pareng flipsy aze?:yippee: :yikes: :bouncy: :nuts: :eeek:

docomo

11-02-2005, 11:02 PM

…kanina 7 members are viewing this thread… he he he … mga fishing :smiley: :stuck_out_tongue:

fremsite

11-02-2005, 11:07 PM

…kanina 7 members are viewing this thread… he he he … mga fishing :smiley: :stuck_out_tongue:

kyaaa!!!:eek: sige na nga … wait namin muna yung sa yo …
tapos nyan , sunod-sunod na yan !!! count me in …:confused:
teka … kelangan ko ng memory chip … hehehehe:D

depp

11-02-2005, 11:08 PM

nagkakahiyaan pa ang mga batang ito.ako na nga mag-uumpisa.naku,wala nang pumasok sa isip ko,inaantok na kasi ako.bukas na lang ha?goodnight!mahirap mg magpuyat,dadami wrinkles ng inang nyo.he,he!:wink:

docomo

11-02-2005, 11:12 PM

Admit it or not, I think some of you misunderstood the posts … ( di kayo napaghahalatang mga fishing) :stuck_out_tongue:

docomo

11-02-2005, 11:16 PM

… It is very hard to remain the way I am when I feel financially insecure…( I don’t know) pride lang siguro:confused:

fisher

11-02-2005, 11:21 PM

Uyyyyy…nahihiy a ka pa.Umpisahan mo na kasi.Wala na iyang hiya-hiya pa tutal majority wins di ba.Gusto namin ikaw ang una tapos si Flippy aze at tapos si Fremsite at susunod na kami.Huwag mo na kaming bolahin na fishing fishing diyan kaya banatan mu na…gusto mo bili kita ice candy para umpisa ka na?:yippee: :bouncy: :nuts:

docomo

11-02-2005, 11:25 PM

Uyyyyy…nahihiy a ka pa.Umpisahan mo na kasi.Wala na iyang hiya-hiya pa tutal majority wins di ba.Gusto namin ikaw ang una tapos si Flippy aze at tapos si Fremsite at susunod na kami.Huwag mo na kaming bolahin na fishing fishing diyan kaya banatan mu na…gusto mo bili kita ice candy para umpisa ka na?:yippee: :bouncy: :nuts:

… ano po bang di nyo naintindihan sa sinagot ko? :rolleyes:

halloween

11-02-2005, 11:44 PM

Oh sha sige ako na mauna…

Dear Joe,

I guess it wasnt meant to be, ay mali! lovenotes pala yon, hehehe.

O sige, tuloy nyo na, panggulo lang ako dito.

maple

11-02-2005, 11:45 PM

… It is very hard to remain the way I am when I feel financially insecure…( I don’t know) pride lang siguro:confused:

Hindi ako sure kung tama ang pagkakaintindi ko dito sa thread, pero share ko na rin ang experience namin ng husband ko.

He lost his job in 2001. Na-bankrupt yung company nila, lahat ng ininvest ng asawa ko eh naglahong parang bula:mad: Sa madaling salita, na depress ang husband ko. Ang feeling niya ay katapusan na ng mundo para sa kanya.

Anyway, I kept a happy disposition, I cracked jokes during meals and even before going to bed…ayaw ko kasing bangungutin kami. I had to remind my husband na kahit hindi bumalik ang investment niya, at least walang hahabol sa amin na tiga-singil ng utang.

My husband never heard me complain (like: hoy, mag-hanap ka nang susunod na trabaho, or dalian mo nang mag-isip ng bagong racket:p ), instead, palagi kong sinasabi sa kanya that he should take his time, pahinga muna siya. Tutal may trabaho naman ako… my own little way of re-assuring him na for richer or for poorer talaga kami:)

maple

docomo

11-02-2005, 11:48 PM

@ maple… haay salamat sa wakas may naka-gets din… go girl :slight_smile:

marjie

11-02-2005, 11:52 PM

hello!im new here hope i can find some new goodfriends.minnasan yorrushiku!:slight_smile:

docomo

11-02-2005, 11:53 PM

hello!im new here hope i can find some new goodfriends.minnasan yorrushiku!:slight_smile:

Welcome to Timog Forum… happy posting:) share ka rin ha;)

gabby

11-02-2005, 11:55 PM

Hindi ako sure kung tama ang pagkakaintindi ko dito sa thread, pero share ko na rin ang experience namin ng husband ko.

He lost his job in 2001. Na-bankrupt yung company nila, lahat ng ininvest ng asawa ko eh naglahong parang bula:mad: Sa madaling salita, na depress ang husband ko. Ang feeling niya ay katapusan na ng mundo para sa kanya.

Anyway, I kept a happy disposition, I cracked jokes during meals and even before going to bed…ayaw ko kasing bangungutin kami. I had to remind my husband na kahit hindi bumalik ang investment niya, at least walang hahabol sa amin na tiga-singil ng utang.

My husband never heard me complain (like: hoy, mag-hanap ka nang susunod na trabaho, or dalian mo nang mag-isip ng bagong racket:p ), instead, palagi kong sinasabi sa kanya that he should take his time, pahinga muna siya. Tutal may trabaho naman ako… my own little way of re-assuring him na for richer or for poorer talaga kami:)

maple

Uy! Ang suwerte nang aswa mo sa iyo. Maganda na, juicy na iyung hindi kumukupas ang ganda at mabait pa. At ang gusto ko talaga sa iyo napaka-assertive mo. Iyun bang parang okay lang ang mundo pag-nandiyan ka kasi alam mo ginagawa mo. Parang kontrolado mo ang takbo nang mundo.

gabby

11-03-2005, 12:32 AM

Every relationship experiences some rough times … There will be situations that neither of you can avoid,which may break or make the relationship even stronger —depending on how you handle them…( be it with your husband/wife …boyfriend/girlfriend … the other party or what we so called soulmate ) voice it out here … :slight_smile:

Hay ang dami. Mga babae hindi mo talaga maintindihan ang gusto. Mapa-Pinay man o Haponesa. Mga girldfriend ko sa Pilipinas pag-hindi ka nakatawag sa phone hindi ka na kikibuin. Asawa ko ngayon, kung hindi ko matulungan sa pag-hugas nang pingan bibintangan na ako na hindi ko na siya mahal na kesyo nag-bago na ako kasi hindi ko na siya tinutulungan. Pag-dinidisiplina ko iyung anak ko malaking away na. Maliit na bagay lang nag-away na kami. Mahirap buhay mag-asawa but I wouldn’t have it any other way. I love my wife and she will stay as Mrs. Silva. That is our goal mag-away man kami bastat may halinghingan pagkatpus okay na iyan pero syempre mauna yung sorry para mas masarap ang halinghingan.:slight_smile:

maple

11-03-2005, 12:36 AM

Uy! Ang suwerte nang aswa mo sa iyo. Maganda na, juicy na iyung hindi kumukupas ang ganda at mabait pa. At ang gusto ko talaga sa iyo napaka-assertive mo. Iyun bang parang okay lang ang mundo pag-nandiyan ka kasi alam mo ginagawa mo. Parang kontrolado mo ang takbo nang mundo.

Hey gabby, gimme that blarney, I wanna kiss it too!:stuck_out_tongue:

My husband is a dyed in the wool gentle / loving person kasi, at yun lang ang mai-susukli ko sa kabaitan niya;)

Am sure your wife will do the same thing for you.:slight_smile:

@ maple… haay salamat sa wakas may naka-gets din… go girl :slight_smile:

hi docomo, salamat din at hindi ako nagkamali sa pagkaka-intindi dito sa thread mo:)

maple

docomo

11-03-2005, 01:19 AM

hi docomo, salamat din at hindi ako nagkamali sa pagkaka-intindi dito sa thread mo:)

maple

… kapupulutan ng maraming aral yang sinabi mo maple … :slight_smile:

docomo

11-03-2005, 01:24 AM

kyaaa!!!:eek: sige na nga … wait namin muna yung sa yo …
tapos nyan , sunod-sunod na yan !!! count me in …:confused:
teka … kelangan ko ng memory chip … hehehehe:D

your turn fremsite:p

Flippy Aze

11-03-2005, 08:45 AM

… It is very hard to remain the way I am when I feel financially insecure…( I don’t know) pride lang siguro:confused:

hey, look who’s talkin’ now,hehe…defensive :confused: docomo, could you please elaborate your concern baka makapag advise kami ni fisher…:slight_smile: ah fisher, misspelled yata username ko at hello di ako pare nwohhh(check my butt), pero okz lang, kasi kampi tayo;) .

adechan

11-03-2005, 09:11 AM

Every relationship experiences some rough times … There will be situations that neither of you can avoid,which may break or make the relationship even stronger —depending on how you handle them…( be it with your husband/wife …boyfriend/girlfriend … the other party or what we so called soulmate ) voice it out here … :slight_smile:

hi there … i just want to share this testimony that happened some years ago

i was once felt very very unhappy with my husband.
i can’t feel his love, i was not happy on our sex life,
and his attitude was really so cold,
he don’t have money and we are very very poor,
we really suffer financial disaster.

i cried. i cried a lot, and took patience in this relationship.
one day i prayed and cried and cried,
i told God He knows my heart, my longings, my desires, my works,
i asked if this was really the guy He wanted for me?
should i stay here, or should i make end to my misery?

I prayed for long hours,
Until suddenly I received understanding and revelation from God,
His message is this:
“LEARN TO LOVE MORE, GIVE MORE. Jesus gave His life for our sake because He loves us.
The Father gave His own son for us to die to save us from sin and can dwell in our Father’s house. Learn from the kind of love I showed unto mankind.”

Imagine, who can give His own life for the sake of his friends? Imagine a father who can give his own son for the sake of other people?

And I understood God loves my husband as well. My husband suffered from his teenage. And once, his soul shout out seeking help from God. God heard him, and because he continue to walk different way, God’s answered left undelivered. And that is why, God took me out from my supposed contented single life and I met my husband. God destined us, to save this man’s soul.

I pray for my husband everyday. Many chances came, I lay hands on him while he is sleeping. And to tell you guys, my husband really changed A LOT. Praise God. God flourish our relationship so much. And we are facing total financial healing. If it is not of God’s graces, I already ended up this relationship.

Even he is home, I could accept friends at home, we pray, we sing, and he don’t have any murmurs. He is already cooperative during sundays. He already accepted that Sundays are for church, even he don’t come inside the services, he drop us and pick us up even we stay for long hours after the services. To think that I am really struggling so hard before just to let me go to church.

Lately, father’s day, i made a letter together with the gift, i wrote there my experience of wanting to end our relationship but laying it down first on prayers, and i wrote the revelation to me. And my husband told me, that there is really an instance in his life, not once but it was a long suffering. The day we decided to live together and marry, and we get an apartment, that was the day he finally got a peaceful permanent home. And he confess that my God, probably is the God of truth.

God is really so good. It is not only my husband that was changed. But God changed me first and taught me how to love, because He loves me.

When relationships don’t go smooth, ask first ourselves, am I giving the right kind of love to my love ones?

(pasensya na sa grammatical errors, no time to edit)

adechan

11-03-2005, 09:17 AM

I love my wife and she will stay as Mrs. Silva. mauna yung sorry para mas masarap ang halinghingan.:slight_smile:

Ikaw pala yan? Or someone else?:eek:

fremsite

11-03-2005, 10:03 AM

your turn fremsite:p

ohayo docomo san … :slight_smile:
nakita ko na memory chip !!!:smiley:

aahhh… how to start ba ? … can i call it " pagsubok " ?
since parang ganun ang tema ng topic … pagsubok kung
paano ang itatagal ng relationship lalo na at parehong
iba ang lahi naming mag-asawa . nung kinasal kami ,
marami ang nag-premonition agad na di raw kami magtatagal .
kesyo bakit daw hapon … aanakan lang ako at iiwanan daw…
since … malakas ang loob ko and i do believe in him ,
hindi ko pinansin and go kami sa japan . sinundo pa niya
ako sa pinas para sigurado syang dadating talaga ako …
pag dating ng japan … i never expected anything from him ,
hindi ko nga inisip kung saan kami magi-stay … hindi ko naman
siya tinatanong kung ano na ang mangyayari sa amin pag nagsama
na kami … ito na siguro pagsubok sa amin …
we lived in a shanty room in osaka … ok lang sa akin yun !
wala siyang narinig … kasi nakikita ko naman sa kanya na he’s doing
everything he can to please me … masipag siyang mag-trabaho and
he really loves me !!! sa kanya ko lang yata nakita ang isang lalaking
walang sawa sa pagtatrabaho . kahit poor kami that time , i didn’t felt it …
he is always around to comfort me … tawagan mo lang sa phone …
sabihin kong nalulungkot ako … kahit may trabaho nasa bahay na agad siya .
he’s doing the best he can for me . he understands na malayo ako sa family ko
back home kaya naman ini-spoiled niya ako .
may time na may petty quarrels kami or inaaway ko siya for reasons
na hindi ko na maalala pa … he is always the one who will say
" what’s wrong ? what did i do ? please don’t be mad …
i’m sorry if i did something wrong … " mahaba pisi ni mister …
kaya siguro nagtagal din kami and will still be strong …
understanding , patience , respect and a lot of love will do wonders in
every relationships .and most of all … believe in God …
i really thank God for the blessings He has given me …
for giving me a man who can understand and love me .
so far … smooth sailing pa rin kami hanggang ngayon ,
financially stable … w/ 2 loving kids … a house and lot of our own …
a car and a pet … what more to ask ? wala na po …except for good
health for all of us … yun lang and nothing more …

yosakoi-soran

11-03-2005, 10:03 AM

hey, look who’s talkin’ now,hehe…defensive :confused: docomo, could you please elaborate your concern baka makapag advise kami ni fisher…:slight_smile: ah fisher, misspelled yata username ko at hello di ako pare nwohhh(check my butt), pero okz lang, kasi kampi tayo;) .

Hey…heyyyyy…: D sama 'ko d’yan…nani…? nani…? :smiley: "who is financially insecure :confused:
Sino naman ang ma-pride? he…he…he… docomo chan… kwento na…makikinig kami:love:
:grinny: :whistle: :mohawk:

Chibi

11-03-2005, 12:43 PM

ohayo docomo san … :slight_smile:
nakita ko na memory chip !!!:smiley:

aahhh… how to start ba ? … can i call it " pagsubok " ?
since parang ganun ang tema ng topic … pagsubok kung
paano ang itatagal ng relationship lalo na at parehong
iba ang lahi naming mag-asawa . nung kinasal kami ,
marami ang nag-premonition agad na di raw kami magtatagal .
kesyo bakit daw hapon … aanakan lang ako at iiwanan daw…
since … malakas ang loob ko and i do believe in him ,
hindi ko pinansin and go kami sa japan . sinundo pa niya
ako sa pinas para sigurado syang dadating talaga ako …
pag dating ng japan … i never expected anything from him ,
hindi ko nga inisip kung saan kami magi-stay … hindi ko naman
siya tinatanong kung ano na ang mangyayari sa amin pag nagsama
na kami … ito na siguro pagsubok sa amin …
we lived in a shanty room in osaka … ok lang sa akin yun !
wala siyang narinig … kasi nakikita ko naman sa kanya na he’s doing
everything he can to please me … masipag siyang mag-trabaho and
he really loves me !!! sa kanya ko lang yata nakita ang isang lalaking
walang sawa sa pagtatrabaho . kahit poor kami that time , i didn’t felt it …
he is always around to comfort me … tawagan mo lang sa phone …
sabihin kong nalulungkot ako … kahit may trabaho nasa bahay na agad siya .
he’s doing the best he can for me . he understands na malayo ako sa family ko
back home kaya naman ini-spoiled niya ako .
may time na may petty quarrels kami or inaaway ko siya for reasons
na hindi ko na maalala pa … he is always the one who will say
" what’s wrong ? what did i do ? please don’t be mad …
i’m sorry if i did something wrong … " mahaba pisi ni mister …
kaya siguro nagtagal din kami and will still be strong …
understanding , patience , respect and a lot of love will do wonders in
every relationships .and most of all … believe in God …
i really thank God for the blessings He has given me …
for giving me a man who can understand and love me .
so far … smooth sailing pa rin kami hanggang ngayon ,
financially stable … w/ 2 loving kids … a house and lot of our own …
a car and a pet … what more to ask ? wala na po …except for good
health for all of us … yun lang and nothing more …
Prend ang haba neto ha!!kakaiyak!!!waaaa aaaaaaaaa!
pareng Docomo kwento ko na lang sa iyo sa EB naten katamad mag type eh!!:eek:

docomo

11-03-2005, 12:56 PM

hi there … i just want to share this testimony that happened some years ago

i was once felt very very unhappy with my husband.
i can’t feel his love, i was not happy on our sex life,
and his attitude was really so cold,
he don’t have money and we are very very poor,
we really suffer financial disaster.

i cried. i cried a lot, and took patience in this relationship.
one day i prayed and cried and cried,
i told God He knows my heart, my longings, my desires, my works,
i asked if this was really the guy He wanted for me?
should i stay here, or should i make end to my misery?

I prayed for long hours,
Until suddenly I received understanding and revelation from God,
His message is this:
“LEARN TO LOVE MORE, GIVE MORE. Jesus gave His life for our sake because He loves us.
The Father gave His own son for us to die to save us from sin and can dwell in our Father’s house. Learn from the kind of love I showed unto mankind.”

Imagine, who can give His own life for the sake of his friends? Imagine a father who can give his own son for the sake of other people?

And I understood God loves my husband as well. My husband suffered from his teenage. And once, his soul shout out seeking help from God. God heard him, and because he continue to walk different way, God’s answered left undelivered. And that is why, God took me out from my supposed contented single life and I met my husband. God destined us, to save this man’s soul.

I pray for my husband everyday. Many chances came, I lay hands on him while he is sleeping. And to tell you guys, my husband really changed A LOT. Praise God. God flourish our relationship so much. And we are facing total financial healing. If it is not of God’s graces, I already ended up this relationship.

Even he is home, I could accept friends at home, we pray, we sing, and he don’t have any murmurs. He is already cooperative during sundays. He already accepted that Sundays are for church, even he don’t come inside the services, he drop us and pick us up even we stay for long hours after the services. To think that I am really struggling so hard before just to let me go to church.

Lately, father’s day, i made a letter together with the gift, i wrote there my experience of wanting to end our relationship but laying it down first on prayers, and i wrote the revelation to me. And my husband told me, that there is really an instance in his life, not once but it was a long suffering. The day we decided to live together and marry, and we get an apartment, that was the day he finally got a peaceful permanent home. And he confess that my God, probably is the God of truth.

God is really so good. It is not only my husband that was changed. But God changed me first and taught me how to love, because He loves me.

When relationships don’t go smooth, ask first ourselves, am I giving the right kind of love to my love ones?

(pasensya na sa grammatical errors, no time to edit)

… another lesson din po ito … kapupulutan din ng aral… :slight_smile:

depp

11-03-2005, 01:00 PM

ako naman…i spent all of my time sa paghahanap-buhay dahil ako ay isang amat-ina sa nag-iisa kong anak,then i fell in love.on that taym ay 1st year college na ang anak ko.he wants to marry me pero ayoko pa,sabi ko pagkagradweyt na ng anak ko.siya raw ang aako ng responsibilidad,isip ako isip pero sumang-ayon na rin ako.nang umuwi na ko ay ng-uumpisa pa lang siya sa business nya kaya wala talagang pera,hanggang di na rin natupad yung pangako nya.pero hindi naman siya pumapalya sa pagpapadala dahil nagbunga na ang aming pagmamahalan.
kaya lang talaga ay kulang.lalo na pag enrollment na,alam nyo naman,1st sem,2nd sem.pinaluwalan ko lahat,maigi na lang me ipon ako.hanggang maubos ipon ko.hindi na rin siya nakakadalaw sa amin ng anak nya dahi wala ngang pera.pasko,b-days,debu wala talaga.pero hindi ko nakuhang magreklamo sa kanya.tiis,tiis,tiis kasi nga ginusto ko ito at mahal ko siya.nang gumaradweyt anak ko,problema pa rin sa pera.pero ginawan ko pa rin ng paraan,ibinenta ko mga alahas ko.as in walang-wala na ako.
wika ko pera lang yan,pati pagmamahal nya wala na rin,maybe na-depress na rin siya on dat taym.hanggang mejo nakabangon na siya,nakamana pa ng ari-arian.at me maganda ng trabaho ngayon,at may sarili ng bahay na namana nya.kaya,pinapunta na nya kami dito.3 years old na ung bunso ko on dat taym.ngayon ay 5 na siya.
bumalik na pera,nadagdagan pa.at higit sa lahat,bumalik na pagmamahal nya.sa AWA ni LORD,6 yrs.na kaming kasal.:slight_smile:

honey

11-03-2005, 01:06 PM

Fremsite ang swerte mo naman pareho kayo ng friend ko na mabait ang mga asawa.:slight_smile:

docomo

11-03-2005, 01:09 PM

Fremsite ang swerte mo naman pareho kayo ng friend ko na mabait ang mga asawa.:slight_smile:

… di ba mabait asawa mo honey?:slight_smile:

Little Johnny

11-03-2005, 02:09 PM

Wow, ganda nman ng stories nyo ladies!!! puro happy endings ah, that’s nice. pwedeng-pwede sa “Magpakailanman” or “Maalaala Mo Kaya”… :smiley:

teka, ako ba meron? hmmmmm… kwento ko n lng sa EB, parang si Chibi, tamad din ako mag-type… hehehe:D

docomo

11-03-2005, 02:15 PM

Wow, ganda nman ng stories nyo ladies!!! puro happy endings ah, that’s nice. pwedeng-pwede sa “Magpakailanman” or “Maalaala Mo Kaya”… :smiley:

teka, ako ba meron? hmmmmm… kwento ko n lng sa EB, parang si Chibi, tamad din ako mag-type… hehehe:D

dalawa na kayo ni chibi p’re na tinandaan kong name … sa EB dun kayo sa harap magkwekwento :smiley: :stuck_out_tongue:

depp

11-03-2005, 02:24 PM

hi docomo,puro lang ba sa relationship sa couples ito?di pwedeng relationship with anak?parang ang sarap magkuwento.:slight_smile:

docomo

11-03-2005, 02:26 PM

hi docomo,puro lang ba sa relationship sa couples ito?di pwedeng relationship with anak?parang ang sarap magkuwento.:slight_smile:

Go Depp … share mo rin… feel free:)

depp

11-03-2005, 02:50 PM

thanks,docomo.palibh asa yasumi,hima.akala mo naman ng-bubuzy e hndi naman ngtatrabaho.meron pala,DH,he,he.
share ko lang ha?nag-TNT ako rito for 8 years.iniwan ko ang anak ko,grade3 yata?umuwi ako,1st year college siya.alm nyo un?yung feeling na ang liit ng anak mo nung iwan mo?nung bumalik ka,naka-make-up,naka-lipstick na?at naninigarilyo pa?na anjan siya sa harap mo,hindi mo mayakap kasi parang nagkakahiyaan kayo,dahil hindi nyo na kilala isat-isa,kahit nakakausap mo siya sa phone.
ang hirap lumapit sa kanya on dat taym,lumalayo siya.lagi kaming nag-aaway.di ko na alam gagawin ko,natuto na siyang magsinugaling sabi ng nanay ko,kasi mas kilala pa siya ng nanay ko.nagdasal na lang ako na sana makilala namin ang isat-isa.unti-unti nakuha ko loob nya,lalo na ng magkaroon siya ng kapatid.hanggang maging close na kami.hanggang gumaradweyt siya.ang sarap pala ng feeling na magkasundo kayo,pati sa pag-inom ha?minsan lang naman.happy ending d b?ang ganda na ng job nya ngyon at higit sa lahat mahal na mahal namin ang isat-isa.pero,naninigaril yo pa rin siya hanggang ngayon,dinaig pa nanay.huh!talagang parang magpakailanman buhay ko ano,mga freinds:)

honey

11-03-2005, 03:03 PM

… di ba mabait asawa mo honey?:slight_smile:

hi! docomo mabait pero iba yung level ng kabaitan nya.di pa gentleman yung tipong baba na lang sya ng kotse nya feeling celebrity tas ako kargahin ko yung bata dala ko pa mga gamit nya huh!buti na lang to the rescue ang friend ko nun makita ako mukha daw akong katulong.kapag nagpaliwanag ako sapawan nya agad yung sasabihin ko ano pa ba sasabihin ko edi manahimik na lang.nagkasakit na ako dito ng emotional stress kakatimpi tas madalas akong mahilo laging busy sa 2 kahit marami syang yasumi kapag hindi mo kinalampag hindi pa ako tutulungan.minsan iniisip ko dahil siguro pagod din sya sa trabaho at naiiritan rin kapag may problema sa office.yan na lang baka tulugan nyo na ako kapag mahaba…basta iniisip ko na mabait at swerte pa rin ako kahit pano kasi hindi naman ako sinasaktan ng asawa ko at di sya nambababae at seryoso sa pagiging padre de pamilya me pagkatamad nga lang sya sa ibang bagay.

honey

11-03-2005, 03:10 PM

depp naiintindihan na siguro ng anak mo yung situation mo natural lang na medyo mahihiya sya sayo kung ganun katagal ka nya di na kita pero sure na namimiss ka rin nya!.nakakatuwa story mo!pede na sa TV pero dapat madrama ang dating.:smiley:

depp

11-03-2005, 03:31 PM

depp naiintindihan na siguro ng anak mo yung situation mo natural lang na medyo mahihiya sya sayo kung ganun katagal ka nya di na kita pero sure na namimiss ka rin nya!.nakakatuwa story mo!pede na sa TV pero dapat madrama ang dating.:smiley:
oo nga honey,pag naaalala ko e napapatawa na lang ako.iniksian ko na lang kwento baka mapagod magbabasa kaya nawala ung drama,hehe.pero mabait din ung batang un kasi di nya ako nasagot o nsumbatan ng masakit na salita,iiyak lang siya.e alam ko rin kung gaano kahirap ang kanyang pinagdaanan,walang tatay,wala ang nanay.naiyak ako dito a.ayan,nagdadrama na.he,he.:slight_smile:

Little Johnny

11-03-2005, 03:40 PM

naka-make-up,naka-lipstick na?

pero depp, magiging comedy 'to kung sasabihin mo na lalaki ang anak mo… hehehe:D

dyok dyok dyok lng po…:smiley: pis tayo depp… nagpapakwela lng, para nde drama lagi… hihihi

hapi yasumi po sa lahat!!!:stuck_out_tongue:

fremsite

11-03-2005, 05:44 PM

dalawa na kayo ni chibi p’re na tinandaan kong name … sa EB dun kayo sa harap magkwekwento :smiley: :stuck_out_tongue:

ang dayaaaaa !!!
di hindi namin malalaman ? one side lang ba ? dapat malaman di namin …
di naman ako makarating ng EB … waaaaahhhhh!!! share nyo !!!
chibi and little johnny …!!!
sige na … …:smiley:

DJchot

11-03-2005, 06:16 PM

isang araw lang akong nawala, ang haba na nitong thread na to…:slight_smile:

fremsite

11-03-2005, 06:16 PM

Prend ang haba neto ha!!kakaiyak!!!waaaa aaaaaaaaa!
pareng Docomo kwento ko na lang sa iyo sa EB naten katamad mag type eh!!:eek:

wak na iyak …! loka-loka!!!:smiley:
share mo rin yung sa yo … we’re waiting ~~~~:)

fremsite

11-03-2005, 06:20 PM

Fremsite ang swerte mo naman pareho kayo ng friend ko na mabait ang mga asawa.:slight_smile:

naka-tsamba lang po … honey san …
yung di pag-help sa yo ng husband mo …
siguro … di mo siya tinatawag kaya akala nya
kaya mo … minsan kelangan din ng " baka naman
gusto mo kong tulungan " look … lalagyan mo lang
ng konting humor para di ka niya ma-ignore …hehehe
ganbatte !!! :slight_smile: :wink:

fremsite

11-03-2005, 06:21 PM

isang araw lang akong nawala, ang haba na nitong thread na to…:slight_smile:

saan ka ba naggagala ? your turn naman djchot !
meron di ba ? hehehe:D share naman ~~~~!

DJchot

11-03-2005, 06:36 PM

saan ka ba naggagala ? your turn naman djchot !
meron di ba ? hehehe:D share naman ~~~~!

umikot lang sa Odaiba City…

rough times in a relationship? meron ba? hehe

puro stupidity at kalokohan pa lang e. kakahiya ipost dito.

Chibi

11-03-2005, 07:02 PM

wak na iyak …! loka-loka!!!:smiley:
share mo rin yung sa yo … we’re waiting ~~~~:)
yoko ngahh…hiya ako eh!!:stuck_out_tongue:

Chibi

11-03-2005, 07:09 PM

umikot lang sa Odaiba City…

rough times in a relationship? meron ba? hehe

puro stupidity at kalokohan pa lang e. kakahiya ipost dito.
owwsssttt!!!green spots of relationship kase yun eh!!hihihihi!
Sige na share mo na yung sa iyo…share ko rin yung saken!!share mo yung share naten…nakup!!!:eek : .este share mo pala story mo!!

fremsite

11-03-2005, 07:09 PM

yoko ngahh…hiya ako eh!!:stuck_out_tongue:

meron ka ba nyan ??? :biglaugh:

DJchot

11-03-2005, 07:11 PM

yoko ngahh…hiya ako eh!!:stuck_out_tongue:

ikwento mo na rito.

yun ba yung may fafa ka na kinuwartahan ka lang noong beautician ka pa lang?
kaya nagsumikap ka para matuloy yung sex transplant mo at makapag asawa ng hapon?

ayan…don’t be shy na…sinimulan ko na hehe

fremsite

11-03-2005, 07:12 PM

owwsssttt!!!green spots of relationship kase yun eh!!hihihihi!
Sige na share mo na yung sa iyo…share ko rin yung saken!!share mo yung share naten…nakup!!!:eek : .este share mo pala story mo!!

parang nahilo ako dito ah ! :nuts: :insane:
asan na ??? green spots ? baka katatapos lang
kumain ng wasabi … hehehehe

fremsite

11-03-2005, 07:13 PM

ikwento mo na rito.

yun ba yung may fafa ka na kinuwartahan ka lang noong beautician ka pa lang?
kaya nagsumikap ka para matuloy yung sex transplant mo at makapag asawa ng hapon?

ayan…don’t be shy na…sinimulan ko na hehe

nyahahahaha!!! natawa naman ako dito ! :biglaugh: :lol:

Chibi

11-03-2005, 07:42 PM

meron ka ba nyan ??? :biglaugh:
waaa!!inapi ko kohh!!!:weep: :weep: makapag welga nga!!hikhikhik!

fremsite

11-03-2005, 07:45 PM

waaa!!inapi ko kohh!!!:weep: :weep: makapag welga nga!!hikhikhik!

saan ka na naman pupunta ??? :eek:
di naman … lambing ko lang sa yo yun , prend :love:

Chibi

11-03-2005, 07:46 PM

ikwento mo na rito.

yun ba yung may fafa ka na kinuwartahan ka lang noong beautician ka pa lang?
kaya nagsumikap ka para matuloy yung sex transplant mo at makapag asawa ng hapon?

ayan…don’t be shy na…sinimulan ko na hehe

tapusin mo na rin kaya…nahiya ka pa dyan!!
mamaya kaw naman ang humanda!!hahhahhahah !:karate: :devil:

DJchot

11-03-2005, 08:01 PM

tapusin mo na rin kaya…nahiya ka pa dyan!!
mamaya kaw naman ang humanda!!hahhahhahah !:karate: :devil:

natuloy ang pag sex transplant ni chibi at dun nagsimulang bumangon at namayagpag sa bago nyang career…naging star of the night sa isang sikat na omise hangang sa natagpuan nya ang tunay na pag ibig na matagal niyang hinahanap.

wow…happy ending din…:smiley:

AMEN.

japino77

11-03-2005, 08:13 PM

kahapon lang itong thread na to ang dami agad replies, patunay na mahilig talaga sa drama mga pinoy:D

honey

11-03-2005, 08:19 PM

naka-tsamba lang po … honey san …
yung di pag-help sa yo ng husband mo …
siguro … di mo siya tinatawag kaya akala nya
kaya mo … minsan kelangan din ng " baka naman
gusto mo kong tulungan " look … lalagyan mo lang
ng konting humor para di ka niya ma-ignore …hehehe
ganbatte !!! :slight_smile: :wink:

gawin ko nga yang sinabi mo:p salamat po.

dcb0620

11-03-2005, 08:39 PM

totoo yan docomo lalo na kung long distance relationship pa…hay ang hirap as in ang hirap talaga…

depp

11-03-2005, 09:18 PM

pero depp, magiging comedy 'to kung sasabihin mo na lalaki ang anak mo… hehehe:D

dyok dyok dyok lng po…:smiley: pis tayo depp… nagpapakwela lng, para nde drama lagi… hihihi

hapi yasumi po sa lahat!!!:stuck_out_tongue:
oo nga ano,little johnny.di ko naisip yun a.e di naging comedy-drama.tsaka ok lang yan,partner name natin di ba?little johnny depp…pis…:smiley:

Maruchan

11-03-2005, 09:25 PM

Oh sha sige ako na mauna…

Dear Joe,

I guess it wasnt meant to be, ay mali! lovenotes pala yon, hehehe.

O sige, tuloy nyo na, panggulo lang ako dito.

Hahaha, Halloween, mabubuang ako sa iyo. Dear Joe ng LoveNotes? :smiley:

Maruchan

11-03-2005, 09:32 PM

Hindi ako sure kung tama ang pagkakaintindi ko dito sa thread, pero share ko na rin ang experience namin ng husband ko.

He lost his job in 2001. Na-bankrupt yung company nila, lahat ng ininvest ng asawa ko eh naglahong parang bula:mad: Sa madaling salita, na depress ang husband ko. Ang feeling niya ay katapusan na ng mundo para sa kanya.

Anyway, I kept a happy disposition, I cracked jokes during meals and even before going to bed…ayaw ko kasing bangungutin kami. I had to remind my husband na kahit hindi bumalik ang investment niya, at least walang hahabol sa amin na tiga-singil ng utang.

My husband never heard me complain (like: hoy, mag-hanap ka nang susunod na trabaho, or dalian mo nang mag-isip ng bagong racket:p ), instead, palagi kong sinasabi sa kanya that he should take his time, pahinga muna siya. Tutal may trabaho naman ako… my own little way of re-assuring him na for richer or for poorer talaga kami:)

maple

Maple, napaiyak mo ako dito at napahanga. I had no idea what you guys were going through. Iyan talaga ang totoong ‘for richer or poor’. Isa kang tunay na mabuting asawa. :sweeties:

Mabuhay si Maple-chan!

:dowave:

DJchot

11-03-2005, 09:50 PM

two thumbs up for you Maple! :thumb: :thumb:
ngayon ko lang nanamnam yung shinare mo dito.

sana’y maging singpalad din ako gaya ng mister mo sa yo…

adechan

11-03-2005, 09:50 PM

gawin ko nga yang sinabi mo:p salamat po.

hi there honey, good idea talaga iyang suggestion sa iyo ni fremsite.

when you got chances voice out what you want to tell by making it some form of joke,

like: talking to yourself aloud. iyong gusto mong sabihin sa kanya speak it out na naririnig niya though you are talking to yourself, pag tinanong ka kung ano ano ang pinagsasabi mo, sabihin mo kunwari deadma ka, “ah kikoeta ka? nandemonai, tada no hitori goto desu…” etc.

sa case ko effective … stress tamaranai pa

adechan

11-03-2005, 09:57 PM

ang haba haba na nga nang thread na ito …

i am expecting to read some more drama … pero naging comedy yata ang dating …

Maruchan

11-03-2005, 09:57 PM

hi there … i just want to share this testimony that happened some years ago

i was once felt very very unhappy with my husband.
i can’t feel his love, i was not happy on our sex life,
and his attitude was really so cold,
he don’t have money and we are very very poor,
we really suffer financial disaster.

i cried. i cried a lot, and took patience in this relationship.
one day i prayed and cried and cried,
i told God He knows my heart, my longings, my desires, my works,
i asked if this was really the guy He wanted for me?
should i stay here, or should i make end to my misery?

I prayed for long hours,
Until suddenly I received understanding and revelation from God,
His message is this:
“LEARN TO LOVE MORE, GIVE MORE. Jesus gave His life for our sake because He loves us.
The Father gave His own son for us to die to save us from sin and can dwell in our Father’s house. Learn from the kind of love I showed unto mankind.”

Imagine, who can give His own life for the sake of his friends? Imagine a father who can give his own son for the sake of other people?

And I understood God loves my husband as well. My husband suffered from his teenage. And once, his soul shout out seeking help from God. God heard him, and because he continue to walk different way, God’s answered left undelivered. And that is why, God took me out from my supposed contented single life and I met my husband. God destined us, to save this man’s soul.

I pray for my husband everyday. Many chances came, I lay hands on him while he is sleeping. And to tell you guys, my husband really changed A LOT. Praise God. God flourish our relationship so much. And we are facing total financial healing. If it is not of God’s graces, I already ended up this relationship.

Even he is home, I could accept friends at home, we pray, we sing, and he don’t have any murmurs. He is already cooperative during sundays. He already accepted that Sundays are for church, even he don’t come inside the services, he drop us and pick us up even we stay for long hours after the services. To think that I am really struggling so hard before just to let me go to church.

Lately, father’s day, i made a letter together with the gift, i wrote there my experience of wanting to end our relationship but laying it down first on prayers, and i wrote the revelation to me. And my husband told me, that there is really an instance in his life, not once but it was a long suffering. The day we decided to live together and marry, and we get an apartment, that was the day he finally got a peaceful permanent home. And he confess that my God, probably is the God of truth.

God is really so good. It is not only my husband that was changed. But God changed me first and taught me how to love, because He loves me.

When relationships don’t go smooth, ask first ourselves, am I giving the right kind of love to my love ones?

(pasensya na sa grammatical errors, no time to edit)

Adechan, I read the book “St. Rita of Cascia” by Fr. Joseph Sicardo last September and you remind me a lot of her marriage and how she fervently prayed for her abusive husband to change and God also answered her many prayers. She was very patient and always kind. God is really good. There are things we cannot change ourselves even how hard we try and it’s always good to ask Him for help, strength or to lift up to God our problems and worries.

Very nice sharing. Mabuhay din si Adechan!

:dowave:

Ikaw pala yan? Or someone else?

Oo, Adechan, siya nga siya at wala ng iba. :grinny:

Maruchan

11-03-2005, 10:13 PM

understanding , patience , respect and a lot of love will do wonders in
every relationships .and most of all … believe in God …

Agree ako sa sinabi mo, Fremsite! :yippee: Indeed, you are so blessed. :slight_smile:

Mabuhay ang mababait na asawang Hapon, Pinoy at iba pa!

:dowave:

halloween

11-03-2005, 10:24 PM

Nakakatuwa talaga Pinoy pagdating sa usapang relasyon, pang tele nobela, nakakaaliw!

Nagulat ako pagkita ko sa thread na 'to. Aba at page 7 na!

Since you’re talking about rough spots of a relationship, pwede bang i share ko dito ang nangyari sa aso kong si Tagpi?

adechan

11-03-2005, 10:36 PM

Adechan, I read the book “St. Rita of Cascia” by Fr. Joseph Sicardo last September and you remind me a lot of her marriage and how she fervently prayed for her abusive husband to change and God also answered her many prayers. She was very patient and always kind. God is really good.

Salamat Maruchan at mabuhay ka rin … dahil mabuti at mahilig ka rin sa nobela at napagtiyagaan mo ang mahabang kong post:D

There are things we cannot change ourselves even how hard we try and it’s always good to ask Him for help, strength or to lift up to God our problems and worries.

totoo talaga iyan … the worst enemy and the worst battle is overcoming “self”, but by giving everything to the hands of God, He opens up chances for us to change …

kaya talagang mabuhay ang Panginoon nang higit sa lahat

Oo, Adechan, siya nga siya at wala ng iba. :grinny:

siya pala, salamat po ulit (vow)

adechan

11-03-2005, 10:39 PM

Nakakatuwa talaga Pinoy pagdating sa usapang relasyon, pang tele nobela, nakakaaliw!

Nagulat ako pagkita ko sa thread na 'to. Aba at page 7 na!

Since you’re talking about rough spots of a relationship, pwede bang i share ko dito ang nangyari sa aso kong si Tagpi?

hi hi hi :smiley: halloween ano bang nangyari kay tagpi?

bwahihihihihihihihih ihihihihihi … …

fisher

11-03-2005, 10:46 PM

hello!im new here hope i can find some new goodfriends.minnasan yorrushiku!:slight_smile:
Welcome to TF Marjie! Enjoy your stay.Join ka sa inumpisahan ni pareng docomo na "rough relationships… kung meron ka i-share mo.:wink:

ning2

11-03-2005, 11:02 PM

Hindi ako sure kung tama ang pagkakaintindi ko dito sa thread, pero share ko na rin ang experience namin ng husband ko.

He lost his job in 2001. Na-bankrupt yung company nila, lahat ng ininvest ng asawa ko eh naglahong parang bula:mad: Sa madaling salita, na depress ang husband ko. Ang feeling niya ay katapusan na ng mundo para sa kanya.

Anyway, I kept a happy disposition, I cracked jokes during meals and even before going to bed…ayaw ko kasing bangungutin kami. I had to remind my husband na kahit hindi bumalik ang investment niya, at least walang hahabol sa amin na tiga-singil ng utang.

My husband never heard me complain (like: hoy, mag-hanap ka nang susunod na trabaho, or dalian mo nang mag-isip ng bagong racket:p ), instead, palagi kong sinasabi sa kanya that he should take his time, pahinga muna siya. Tutal may trabaho naman ako… my own little way of re-assuring him na for richer or for poorer talaga kami:)

maple

hi maple、

halos pareho pala tayo ng pinagdaanan. nung ma-bankrupt din yung company ng asawa ko 1998 yata yon!pero byenan kong lalaki ang nag-mamanage. pina-uuwi ako non sa pinas para daw maiiwas ako sa mga maniningil dahil komo anak ang asawa ko syempre sa amin ang punta ng mga yon. sabi ko naman “kung kailan nasa gipit na lagay eh iiwan kita?” lumipat kami ng tirahan para makaiwas sa posibleng gulo pero kasama namin ang biyenan kong babae at hipag. hindi muna naghanap ng trabaho ang asawa ko dahil depress din. pinagpahinga ko rin sya kahit na . wala akong trabaho non dahil maliit pa ang panganay ko, buti na lang at may naipon kami kahit paano kaya iyon ang ginamit namin sa araw-araw higpit nga lang ng sinturon. and so on…
hanggang sa nakahanap din sya ng trabaho, at makarecover din yung biyenan kong babae lumipat na sila ng tirahan kasama yung hipag ko. nung may dumating na magandang offer na trabaho sa asawa ko , lipat naman uli kami dito sa place namin ngayon. hindi ko malilimutan ang pinagdaanan namin na iyon dahil iyon ang naging ugat na napalapit ang loob sa akin ng biyenan kong babae pati na rin yung isang tiyahin ng asawa ko na medyo ayaw sa akin. hindi nila inaasahan na for better and for worse nasa tabi ako ng asawa ko.:slight_smile:

pinaiksi ko na lang kwento ko:)

maple

11-04-2005, 10:25 PM

… hindi nila inaasahan na for better and for worse nasa tabi ako ng asawa ko.:slight_smile:

pinaiksi ko na lang kwento ko:)

Hello ning2,

naku, as I write this, baka meron nang nakagawa ng script tungkol sa karanasan natin:eek: …wala pa naman akong TFC…pano ko mapapanood ang drama ng buhay natin???:confused: :smiley:

maple

ning2

11-04-2005, 11:03 PM

Hello ning2,

naku, as I write this, baka meron nang nakagawa ng script tungkol sa karanasan natin:eek: …wala pa naman akong TFC…pano ko mapapanood ang drama ng buhay natin???:confused: :smiley:

maple

hello maple,

paano ba yan? pareho pa tayong walang TFC…!:eek: di bale magpa-dubbing na lang tayo sa ibang member ng TF kapag naipalabas na yung tungkol sa karanasan ng buhay natin.:smiley:

DJchot

11-05-2005, 11:37 AM

Hindi ba yung buhay ni chibi ang napili para sa “Maalala Mo Kaya?” :eek:

hayaren

10-24-2006, 07:46 PM

Rough Times,…dahil ang asawa ko hapon, di nakakapag yasumi ng lengthy from work.

Since magsyota pa lang kami at hanggang we got married, there have been so many special occassions in the past na my husband has to spend it with me but likely because of his priorities at work, he can’t grace the event with me thus I have to show up with a chaperon instead of my husband as my escort. If we got travel plans, I have to work double effort digging the itinerary and present it to him for scrutiny or approval. The bottom line here is, what I and my husband considered as rough in our relationship is, we may have the rest of what it takes to be a couple of the new millenium YET the shortage of time we have for each other crucifies us:)

mamimo

10-24-2006, 08:34 PM

Rough times ng samahan namin mag-asawa ay nung bagong dating ako dito sa Japan. Grabe ko nun ayaw ko tumikim ng Japanese food, ayaw kong maligo sa ofuro, di nakipag-usap sa inlaws ko kahit magkasama kami sa iisang bahay, etc… Masasabi kong to the highest level ang culture shock ko wala akong ginawa kundi umiyak then pag-uwi ni hubby awayin ko sya. May mga araw pa na nag-check in ako mag-isa sa hotel para magpalipas ng sama ng loob dami kong drama nun. Kung di ako mahal ng asawa ko bumigay na sya sa akin. Maayos ang pamilyang pinagmulan nya kaya di sya sanay sa problemang dala ko pero kinaya nya lahat.

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