aimi2819
11-24-2005, 12:41 PM
Pano po ba makatagpo ng isang tunay na kaibigan, at pano mo rin malalaman kung totoo sya sayo o hindi, mga kapatid, give me some advice, thanks:confused:
mika21
11-24-2005, 12:58 PM
about my opinion madali lng makahanap ng kaibigan.lalo na pag friendly ka rin ingat nga lang sa mga taong plastic at back fighter madali lng naman malaman ang ugali ng isang tao kung true ba sya o hindi diba why dont you try me im a good friend ayoko sa taong plastic malay mo one of those day maging magkaibigan tayo diba huwag kng mawawalan ng pag asa darating din sayo ang tunay na kaibigan try ka lng dito rin sa forum maraming mga matatapat na kaibigan dito kaya hwag kang mag alala ok.
aimi2819
11-24-2005, 01:15 PM
about my opinion madali lng makahanap ng kaibigan.lalo na pag friendly ka rin ingat nga lang sa mga taong plastic at back fighter madali lng naman malaman ang ugali ng isang tao kung true ba sya o hindi diba why dont you try me im a good friend ayoko sa taong plastic malay mo one of those day maging magkaibigan tayo diba huwag kng mawawalan ng pag asa darating din sayo ang tunay na kaibigan try ka lng dito rin sa forum maraming mga matatapat na kaibigan dito kaya hwag kang mag alala ok.Sana nga magkita tayo no:)
myukasky
11-24-2005, 01:30 PM
Pano po ba makatagpo ng isang tunay na kaibigan, at pano mo rin malalaman kung totoo sya sayo o hindi, mga kapatid, give me some advice, thanks:confused:
Alam mo aimi, maraming puwedeng maging kaibigan. Pero yung paano sila malaman kung totoo sila medyo mahirap. Dito sa Tf marami kang magiging kaibigan.
Ako kasi nagkaroon na rin ng friend dito, kailan ko lang sya nakilala pero magkasundo kami sa kalukuhan;) Jokes lang! Open sya sa akin at pround naman ako doon kasi it means may trust sya sa akin. Ako din puwedeng maging friend:D PM mo lang ako kung gusto mo? Kung di mo pala ako PM ibig sabihin ayaw mo whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa baka di ako makatulog nito ah heheheheheh. jokes lang kita para matawa ka naman;)
Hungry eyes
11-24-2005, 04:59 PM
Pano po ba makatagpo ng isang tunay na kaibigan, at pano mo rin malalaman kung totoo sya sayo o hindi, mga kapatid, give me some advice, thanks:confused:
Aimi…ang tapat na kaibigang minsan lang kung dumating sa buhay natin yan…kaibigan marami nyan…maging tapat ka lang din or vice versa…and dapat tanggap mo yun nature ng kaibigang mo…para matanggap ka din nila…tsaka yun pinaka sensitive part ng buhay dont share it …kasi hindi mo alam kung talagang totoo sila saiyo…protect your self…mayroon akong nag iisang true friend…12 years na yun friendship namin…pero ngayon lang namin naamin sa sarili namin na we are true and best of friends…we sticked through thick and thin …marami na kaming pinagdaanan …nandyan un divorced namin pareho na pinagsaluhan namin yun pain…yun hurts…hanggang sa pareho kaming nakabangon …ang tunay na kaibigan or pagkakaibigan kasi hinuhubog ng panahon…
adechan
11-24-2005, 05:05 PM
Pano po ba makatagpo ng isang tunay na kaibigan, at pano mo rin malalaman kung totoo sya sayo o hindi, mga kapatid, give me some advice, thanks:confused:
tunay na kaibigan?
for me, time can test who will be your true friend. pagbaligbaligtarin man ang mundo, magkaroon man kayo nang malaking away, magkakabati pa rin kayo, magkaroon kayo nang matitinding problema, nandiyan pa rin ang isa’t isa, marami mang bagay na magkaiba kayo sa ugali at mga gusto, mas matimbang pa rin ang pinagsamahan ninyo sa hirap at mga kalokohan, escapades, gala at kung ano ano pa …
kaya to find a friend is just be open and friendly, kung sino ang lumapit sa iyo welcome them, get closer, kung sino ang napipisil mo na mukang ka vibes mo and you have things in common, go on and make friends with them.
to enter friendship you must be open on the risk but ready to accept the consequences. kung you found out na hindi pala true friend, lalo na nagtiwala ka, at nasabihan mo pa nang mga secrets mo, just be ready emotionaly, handle is with care, after all may napagsamahan pa rin kayo, mayroon ka talagang matatagpuang ganoong tao, backfighter, at mga ningas kugon lalo na pag sa oras na kailangan mo nang tulong … then time will tell … kung sino ang matitirang kaibigan mo, malapit man sa lugar mo o malayo man kayo sa isa’t isa …
Hope you find one good true friend:)
adechan
11-24-2005, 05:11 PM
Aimi…ang tapat na kaibigang minsan lang kung dumating sa buhay natin yan…kaibigan marami nyan…maging tapat ka lang din or vice versa…and dapat tanggap mo yun nature ng kaibigang mo…para matanggap ka din nila…tsaka yun pinaka sensitive part ng buhay dont share it …kasi hindi mo alam kung talagang totoo sila saiyo…protect your self…mayroon akong nag iisang true friend…12 years na yun friendship namin…pero ngayon lang namin naamin sa sarili namin na we are true and best of friends…we sticked through thick and thin …marami na kaming pinagdaanan …nandyan un divorced namin pareho na pinagsaluhan namin yun pain…yun hurts…hanggang sa pareho kaming nakabangon …ang tunay na kaibigan or pagkakaibigan kasi hinuhubog ng panahon…
it’s true Hungry eyes … my best friends and true friends, at first we don’t mean it to be real friends, parang barka-barkada lang … pero years past, lately lang namin na na-realize na perhaps we can call ourselves true friends pala … katulad sa iyo, we shared pains and success and we stick through thick and thin nga daw 
mossimo
11-24-2005, 06:19 PM
Sana makatulong…mahaba pero worth naman time mo.
Just Three Words . . .
There are many things that you can do to strengthen your relationships.
Often the most effective thing you can do involves saying just three words.
When spoken sincerely, these statements often have the power to develop new
friendships, deepen old ones and even bring healing to relationships that
have soured.
The following three-word phrases can be tools to help develop every
relationship.
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Let me help
Good friends see a need and then try to fill it. When they see a hurt they
do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they jump in and help out. -
I understand you.
People become closer and enjoy each other more when the other person accepts
and understands them. Letting your spouse know - in so many little ways -
that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your
relationship. And this can apply to any relationship. -
I respect you
Respect is another way of showing love. Respect demonstrates that another
person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults
you will strengthen the bonds and become closer friends. This applies to
all interpersonal relationships. -
I miss you.
Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and
sincerely said to each other “I miss you.” This powerful affirmation tells
partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved. Consider how important
you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in
the middle of your workday, just to say “I miss you.” -
Maybe you’re right.
This phrase is very effective in diffusing an argument. The implication
when you say “maybe you’re right” is the humility of admitting, “maybe I’m
wrong”. Let’s face it. When you have an argument with someone, all you
normally do is solidify the other person’s point of view. They, or you, will
not likely change their position and you run the risk of seriously damaging
the relationship between you. Saying “maybe you’re right” can open the door
to explore the subject more. You may then have the opportunity to express
your view in a way that is understandable to the other person. -
Please forgive me
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit
their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults,
foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has
been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today
than he was yesterday. -
I thank you.
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the
companionship of good, close friends are those who don’t take daily
courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many
expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends
is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude. -
Count on me
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential
ingredient for true friendship. It is the emotional glue that bonds people.
Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true
friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating “you can
count on me.” -
I’ll be there
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a
sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from
home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase “I’ll be there.”
Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are
truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We
are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and
spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility. -
Go for it
We are all unique individuals. Don’t try to get your friends to conform to
your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how far
out they seem to you. God has given everyone dreams, dreams that are unique
to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their
dreams. Tell them to “go for it.”
B o n u s : 11. I love you
Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone
that you truly love them satisfies a person’s deepest emotional needs. The
need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your
children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words:
“I love you.” Love is a choice. You can love even when the feeling is
gone.
tfcfan
11-24-2005, 09:26 PM
Pano po ba makatagpo ng isang tunay na kaibigan, at pano mo rin malalaman kung totoo sya sayo o hindi, mga kapatid, give me some advice, thanks:confused:
True Friend is hard to find!!!
You should need acceptance,trust and respect,and last is forgiveness.
Accept the person for what she/he is.Learn to trust him/her, so that person will do unto you.
Then if you gain trust,respect comes with it(respect his/her thoughts,ideas,words and decision but never forget to give some piece of advice,and respect everything about him/her).
Then if the time comes to test your friendship.Be tough and don’t be afraid to accept each others mistakes.Don’t hesitate to ask for forgiveness…
aimi2819
11-26-2005, 10:27 PM
Good evening! Thank you po sa mga nagbigay ng advice:) Ang dami ko talagang natututunan dito sa TF:D
kendi
11-27-2005, 03:43 PM
Aquaintances vs. True friends
An aquaintance says…hi,…hello,…b ye,…and walks away…
A True friend always stop by your side & asks how r u doing ??
An aquaintance has never seen you cry.
A True friend has shoulders soggy from your tears.
An aquaintance thinks the true friendship is over, when you have an argument.
A True friend knows that it’s not a true friendship, until after you’ve had a fight.
An aquaintance hates it when you call, after he has gone to bed.
A True friend asks you… why you took so long to call.
An aquaintance, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A True friend opens your refrigerator and helps himself.
An aquaintance jealous about your romantic history.
A True friend wonders of your love story…
An aquaintance expects you to be always there for any help.
A True friend is always there, wherever you require any help.
An aquaintance doesn’t have time in his/her busy schedule,
A True friend always have time for you in his/her busy schedules…
An aquaintance phones you whenever he/she has some work,
A True friend calls you often just to hear your voice…
An aquaintance doesnt have anything to talk to you on phone,
A True friend doesnt know…what all to finish…
michiko
03-18-2006, 09:46 PM
true friend… always there for you! especially on bad times. willing to be a shoulder to cry on whenever you need them…
ladygems1216
03-19-2006, 02:25 PM
…True friend is one who will hold you at your weakest and will love you at your worst…
akiam
03-19-2006, 10:11 PM
[quote=mossimo]Sana makatulong…mahaba pero worth naman time mo.
worth it…
benihana
06-18-2006, 12:31 AM
she or he really never cared in anything, everything that you do…
hindi sya TRUE friend…
pooh_chan
10-29-2006, 11:31 PM
she or he really never cared in anything, everything that you do…
hindi sya TRUE friend…
:thumb: Agree…
mamimo
10-30-2006, 10:21 AM
Pano po ba makatagpo ng isang tunay na kaibigan, at pano mo rin malalaman kung totoo sya sayo o hindi, mga kapatid, give me some advice, thanks:confused:
Wala yatang formula para makatagpo ng isang tunay na kaibigan, kung mangyayari mangyayari to. Malalaman ko kung true friend ang isang tao sa haba ng panahon ng pagsasama namin bilang magkaibigan. Friendship is tested by time:)
honey
10-30-2006, 10:38 AM
Kilalanin mo yung friend mo alamin mo ang gusto nya’t ayaw ganun din gawin mo para tumagal ang friendship nyo.
kaya lang naman di nagtatagal ang friendship kasi
dahil sa utang
hindi ka kumakampi sa mali nya
siraan/traidordagdagan nyo na lang mga kapatid:p
pooh_chan
10-30-2006, 06:22 PM
Friend?
This word was actually harder to define than I thought it would be.
To me, a friend is someone who knows all about you & likes you anyway… Being a
friend means more than recognizing that no one is perfect, it means accepting it. A
friend is someone who doesn’t ask you to change but helps you to grow. The most
important quality a friend can demonstrate is loyalty. This means standing by you when
the going gets a little rough, not just in the good times. It means standing up for you at
all times, not letting others demean you in any way, & never taking advantage of you or
treating you badly…
docomo
10-31-2006, 01:53 PM
It’s about loyalty, and about giving as much as you take, without taking what you’re given for granted.
bahaykubo
10-29-2008, 12:15 PM
pasensha na po thread starter at nahalungkat ko ito…naghahanap lang din kasi ako kung hanggang saan at paano talga ma te test ang isang tao or paano mo malalaman kung totoo ba ang friendship na ipinapakita nya sayo or purong kaplastikan lang…
tama ang sabi nila.madaling makahanap ng kakilala dito sa tf maging pero mahirap /malabo yatang makahanap dito ng tunay na kaibigan…kung meron man iilan lang…1 or 2 siguro…
marami na din ako nakilala at nakasalamuha sa loob ng 1 taon.may close , feeling close, may parang tufferware at lubha tsimosa siguro na matatawag…
salamat sa mga taong mapaghusga sa pagkatao ng iba …dahil sa mga taong ito ay malalaman mo kung sino ang tapat at tunay na nagmamahal/care para sayo…
MAY TENGA ANG LUPA MAY PAKPAK ANG BALITA:sssh:
remember malaki ang tenga ko??? :biglaugh:
stupify
10-29-2008, 03:48 PM
pssstt ano to ha:p welcome to life!
(in fairness hinalungkat mo talaga sa baul ire ah)
may mga tinatawag din madalas na friends with benefit lang:D
liz_2013
10-29-2008, 03:49 PM
pwede ka bang maging friend with benefits?
bahaykubo
10-29-2008, 03:54 PM
masakit kasi ang loob ko sa itinuturing ko sa isang kakilala sa kabilang bundok ng makiling…:mad:wa la naman akong ginawa sa kanya…
bakit nga ba??
wow friend with benefits…ei meron na kong beneficiary ei…la na shang makukuha sakin noh:D
tamang senti lang…
alotta
10-29-2008, 04:03 PM
totoong kaibigan?
mahirap makahanap niyan
kaya ako happy ako kasi meron ako niyan
15yrs na kami magkaibigan
relatives and families namin friends na din
magkasama sa lahat ng kalokohan at mga “firsts” namin sa kung anu-anong bagay
samaan ng loob? nangyari na din samin yan!
ngayon nakakatawa na lang kung iisipin…
hinde ko din alam
kung bakit naging ganito kami katatag
siguro kasi talagang minahal na namin ang isa’t isa hinde lang bilang friend
kundi bilang kapamilya na(uy parang abs cbn ang dating hehe)
pero true yan sis!
kaya yan ang advice ko sayo…
goodluck!
ahccofharyne
10-29-2008, 04:32 PM
Para maka kita nang totoong kaibigan…hmmm…
Maging aware sa taong nag sasalita sa yo ng pangit tungkol sa kilala nyang tao. Yung iba kasi, akala nila porket sinasabihan sila ng aginst sa kapwa nila , akala nya kampi na sila. Wag kang paka siguro, baka pag talikod nya, ikaw naman ang sinasabihan ng pangit.
Madaming ganyan. Makuha lang ang loob ng isang tao, sinasabi baho ng iba. tsk tsk…Sasabihin kasi tiwala or pinag katiwalaan ka nya. Think again, pinag katiwalaan ka nga ba o talagang ganon ugali nya ?
saka na lang yung ganong usapan pag subok na friendship nyo. Time will tell…
“Tell me who is your friend and i wil tell you who you are” …
yatski
10-29-2008, 05:18 PM
Mahirap pero malalaman molang kung…
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Yung tao nayun ay laging naka alalay sayo sa panahon na kailangan mo ng taong makikinig sayo at dadamayan ka sa problema mo, hindi dahil lang sa nakakasama mo sa gimik kaya nanjan.
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Yung taong kayang sabihin sayo ng diretso ang bagay na mali kahit masaktan ka man pero ikabubuti mo naman ang mga bagay nayun.
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Yung taong mag karon man kayo ng sama ng loob ay ready parin tanggapin ang pagkakamali nya at dina kailangan sisihin pa kung sino ang tama at mali basta mag kaayos kayo.
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Yung taong hindi nagbibilang ng naitulong sayo bagkus magbibilang pa kung ano ang pwedeng pa nyang itulong sayo.
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Yung taong magaaksaya ng panahon para kamustahin ka kahit na madalas mo syang nakakalimutan.
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Yung taong mamahalin at tatanggapin kung anong ugaling meron ka, kaya wag kang abusado okay! heheh,…meron pa kaya???
sky
10-29-2008, 06:10 PM
Maging makatotohanan lang kayo sa isat isa at pagtanggap sa kung ano kayo pareho… patawaran at aminan ng pagkukulang
Ganyan kami ng friend kong si kulasa (ibang kulasa po) 20 years na kami
Matty
10-29-2008, 07:56 PM
sa akin naman po sa tinagal tagal ko dito sa japan ni isa walang matinong fren.
lahat sila mga fake! :p:p:p…ewan ko lang …kung hindi insecure, naninira . manggagamit…kapag di kana kailangan di kana maalalang tawagan man lang. buti pa aso ko loyal sa akin…:D:D:D
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