RAIN
01-01-2006, 07:21 PM
Happy new year to all TF member.Sana naman okey ang New year celebration 2006.Nag new year ako sa loob ng hospital from dec 30 to dec 31. Namatay ang father in law ko halos hindi ako natutulog ng 2 araw .Marami akong naranasan na hindi ko naranasan before.Para sa mga hapon kinakausap nila patay para mag paalam at sabi nila sa akin ikaw naman ang sabi ko kinausap ko na siya bago siya namatay at ang sabi ko Ibigay mo na sarili mo nag hihintay ang god sa iyo.Nagulat ang family member sino raw kamisama? sabi ko may god who? sabi ko kristo tahimik lang sila .Namatay ang farher in law ko i feel like my real father jan 1 2006 time 2:28 am day and time ng mamatay.Malas sarado ang funeral kaya nag meeting sila na burn the body ngayon nasa waiting list sila jan 5 2006 Iniwan namin ang body ng father in law ko na walang prayer na aawa ako hindi sila naniniwala sa god.
Raiden
01-01-2006, 07:34 PM
My condolences.
I’m very sorry for your loss.
Even though your in-laws aren’t religious, I believe there is a pleasant afterlife for your father-in-law for being a decent person during his lifetime.
Remember Baptism by Desire?
selina
01-01-2006, 08:43 PM
…my condolences to you and your family sadnaman pala ang new year mo?cheer up!!at least nasa peaceful place na ang father-in-law mo diba,kaya pala absent ka dito sa timog lately ano???gambatte ne:thumb:
Harry1806
01-01-2006, 08:56 PM
While people around world were enjoying their new year’s celebration, you and your family were suffering from the loss of your father-in-law. Please accept my condolence, Rain. Let’s just accept the fact that due to our varied religious beliefs we have different ways of paying respect to our loved ones who passed away. For Christians like us, we may still offer our normal prayer based on our faith as we respect others’ rituals based on their own. Just keep looking up!
Dkid
01-01-2006, 09:31 PM
My condolences RAIN. Eternal rest grant unto him, and let that perpetual light shine upon him. Don’t worry too much, for as long as he lived his life with ample respect, he will be welcomed into the Lord’s kingdom. Blessed are the innocents, for they have no guilt, thus be free from eternal damnation.
puting tainga
01-01-2006, 09:45 PM
My condolences.(Kono tabi wa goshusho sama deshita.)
Details of funeral differ from one denomination to another in Buddhism.
Things you’ve seen at other funerals may be different.
Better check it with your asawa.
midnight
01-02-2006, 12:38 AM
My condolences to your family
buddy cab
01-02-2006, 01:42 AM
nakakainis
ugnayan
01-02-2006, 04:24 AM
My sincerest sympathy & prayer-intercession for you, RAIN! I can imagine and understand your situation since I also lost my father last year. Three weeks ago I was in a funeral service of our kababayan in Tokyo. The Japanese husband & friends asked me to prepare a special program. Grabe ang puyatan sa pagtatype ng programa, paghahanap ng larawan ng yumaong kaibigan at pag-eensayo ng mga kakantahin at sasabihin sa publiko.
There were about a hundred Japanese who joined the 50+ Filipinos in a small community center in Hino City. The occasion & souvenir program were a rare opportunity for us Filipino Christians to speak the reality of life and death. I know that many Japanese were surprised with our singing of the favorite Christian songs of our departed friend. Our expression of our faith to our Creator God and belief in eternal life through Christ Jesus were bold testimonies of being Christian believers (we rest on the Holy Spirit to convict them).
We took the opportune time to plant a seed of hope, established rapport with the Japanese guests and shared that we Filipinos would like to serve the purpose of our Sovereign God in our lives in a foreign land! On December 11, we had a solemn, orderly and Spirit-filled funeral service of an OFW married to a Japanese…
Like what I always share to our kababayan wherever I travel in the world, malawak at malalim ang pananalig natin sa ating Manlilikha at ito ang magandang mensahe natin sa kapwa–kalahi man o banyaga–sa ano mang pagkakataon at sa magandang pamamaraan.
I pray for God’s wisdom to encourage your in-laws, boldness to share your Christian faith, grace to stand as a foreign family member, a Filipino one! Mabuhay ka, kabayan!:halo:
For such a time like this, as a Filipino Christian, keep shining, RAIN! :tiphat:
joeblack
01-02-2006, 08:35 AM
I extend my heartfelt gratitude and condolence to you Rain. Remember that death will come to each and everyone of us that we can not notice for it will come like a thieves in the night. Your father-in-law was gone and we have nothing to do with God’s purpose to him. The only thing we can do is to pray for his salvation that he may rest in peace!!!
Behold Thy Burden Bearings, Come to Me and I will Give you Rest!!!
docomo
01-02-2006, 10:09 AM
My deepest symphaty Rain… It has been a lot of a trial for you , I know you will find a relieve to see it go … 
ritzyu
01-02-2006, 10:12 AM
My condolences RAIN, may God bless his soul.
pasawaykids
01-02-2006, 02:51 PM
My condolence to you and your bereaved family.
May you find the strenght to overcome the grief and sorrow you are in now.
adechan
01-03-2006, 06:41 PM
Condolence RAIN
speaking of emotion it is really so sad to see our family members die, lalo na kung talagang mahal na mahal mo. But as a Christian, kung ang pumanaw ay “Saved soul” we must be very happy dahil nauna na siyang makarating sa Kingdom of God, but kung unsaved soul ay talagang nakakalungkot.
really giving my heartfelt sympathy and condolence.
Summer!
01-03-2006, 11:10 PM
condolences to you, rain…
jbzealot
01-04-2006, 08:36 AM
…Rain, my symphaty and prayers to your family. Condolence.
Buddy
01-05-2006, 05:33 PM
RAIN…condolence!
Ramdam ko rin ang lungkot mo. We all know part ng buhay ito to end up life in the flesh pro kung isa sa family member natin mangyari ito talaga namang luhang hindi mapigil lalo na kung mahal mo. My prayers & sympathy to you & to all your family members.
RAIN
01-10-2006, 10:04 AM
Salamat sa TF member .Natapos na ang ceremony at nasa bahay na rin ang mga bone.Sa japan pala inuuwi sa bahay matapos burn ang body.
Thank you all.
aprilluck
01-10-2006, 10:31 AM
Salamat sa TF member .Natapos na ang ceremony at nasa bahay na rin ang mga bone.Sa japan pala inuuwi sa bahay matapos burn ang body.
Thank you all.
@Rain,Condolence sa’yo .Magpahinga ka at kumain ng maayos kasi marami pang susunod na pagtitipon ,Nakakapagod ,na-experience ko na rin iyan noong namatay ang brother in law ko .
Yes , after the cremation inu-uwi sa bahay then dadalhin sa “Ohaka” ng family pagkatapos ng 38 to 45 days depende kung kailan ang napagkasunduan ng buong family.
One year ang mourning (pagluluksa)walang kahit anong celebration,birthday s,events,ect.pati na ang “nengajyou”,hindi kayo magpapadala ,sakali man na makatanggap kayo hindi kayo mag re-reply ,but understood na sa kanila iyon.Within a year ,lahat ng klaseng greetings na may salitang "omedetoo"hindi dapat sabihin.
Sa ngayon just take a rest.
japphi
01-10-2006, 03:05 PM
Rain…condolence sa’yo at sa family mo…ako rin nawalan na ng father…pero ganyan talaga siguro ang buhay…una-una lang siguro…pahinga kang maige.
katty0531
01-10-2006, 03:37 PM
My prayers and symphaty to you at sa pamilya mo RAIN.
@aprilluck, salamat sa post mo at medyo naliwanagan din ako, ah…ganyan pala, kasi ngayon iniisip ko rin na paano kaya ang gagawin pag darating yong time na kukunin na yong biyenan ko? ano kaya ang patakaran dito? wala talaga akong idea, nakaka ilang naman kung itanong sa asawa ko, atleast kahit konti meron na akong alam…sinadya kong hindi i PM ito para naman mabasa ng iba na may hawig sa sitwasyon ko.Pasensya na po RAIN.
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