richie
12-13-2005, 05:16 PM
My friend Marie and I had been trying to figure out a situation, kaso hanggang “baka” “di Kaya” lang kami. So in the end, “itanong na lang natin sa mga lalaki…”
situation:
We have an Filipina acquaintance, not actually a friend, who married a Japanese, they have one child. When their child was 6 months old, nagloko na si lalaki. In other words, nagdivorce. Nagpakasal ngayon etong Japanese guy sa isa ring Filipina, kakilala din namin.
Mas maganda yung unang asawa, masipag, masinop, mabait. Yung pangalawa, mabait, malambing, masinop din.
Ang gusto lang namin sanang itanong, ano ba talaga ang hinahanap ng mga lalaki sa kanyang asawa para di na niya ipagpapalit ito:confused:
Please share naman diyan!!!
JEM_jp
12-13-2005, 05:21 PM
My friend Marie and I had been trying to figure out a situation, kaso hanggang “baka” “di Kaya” lang kami. So in the end, “itanong na lang natin sa mga lalaki…”
situation:
We have an Filipina acquaintance, not actually a friend, who married a Japanese, they have one child. When their child was 6 months old, nagloko na si lalaki. In other words, nagdivorce. Nagpakasal ngayon etong Japanese guy sa isa ring Filipina, kakilala din namin.
Mas maganda yung unang asawa, masipag, masinop, mabait. Yung pangalawa, mabait, malambing, masinop din.
Ang gusto lang namin sanang itanong, ano ba talaga ang hinahanap ng mga lalaki sa kanyang asawa para di na niya ipagpapalit ito:confused:
Please share naman diyan!!!
ang gusto ng jap guy is having fun of his life… no wonder
Dax
12-13-2005, 05:42 PM
Hi richie,
Sorry to hear about your friend’s story. I think you and Marie should not think of “anong wala sa kaibigan namin?” but “what the heck is wrong with her ex-hubby”. :mad: Kahit gaano kaganda, bait, sipag, sexy o galing mag back-tumbling ng babae kung lokoloko ang lalaki walang mangyayari.
Since nangyari na, I hope sinu-suportahan naman ng ex-hubby ang friend nyo at baby nila. Good luck to them. 
RAIN
12-13-2005, 05:47 PM
True story ito pakistani na kasal sa haponesa nag iinuman kami at ang story niya may girl friend siya pag dating sa sex super daw itong babae pinapagamit din daw ang back door kaya nakakadiri daw? sabi namin isang British,OZ.Jap.Pinoy I wish siya ang girl friend ko.pag kalipas ang 1 year nagulat kami iniwan niya ang asawa at anak ngayon kinakasama niya ang girl friend niya di namain alam ngayon kung kasal siya.Bastos na lalaki nakakadiri raw:rolleyes:
JEM_jp
12-13-2005, 05:47 PM
Hi richie,
Sorry to hear about your friend’s story. I think you and Marie should not think of “anong wala sa kaibigan namin?” but “what the heck is wrong with her ex-hubby”. :mad: Kahit gaano kaganda, bait, sipag, sexy o galing mag back-tumbling ng babae kung lokoloko ang lalaki walang mangyayari.
Since nangyari na, I hope sinu-suportahan naman ng ex-hubby ang friend nyo at baby nila. Good luck to them.
that was it.
talagang loko yung jap guy…
docomo
12-13-2005, 06:00 PM
… openess kasi ang solution ng mag-partner pag dating sa parteng sekswal ( walang inhibisyon , pretensyon) … para parehas nyo alam kung ano bang satisfying sa inyo pareho … pwede naman kasi din yung pag aralan …the best mag-compromise ang isat isa , work it out kahit sa parteng sekswal… ( hala ako ba itoh) 
Little Johnny
12-13-2005, 06:46 PM
… openess kasi ang solution ng mag-partner pag dating sa parteng sekswal ( walang inhibisyon , pretensyon) … para parehas nyo alam kung ano bang satisfying sa inyo pareho … pwede naman kasi din yung pag aralan …the best mag-compromise ang isat isa , work it out kahit sa parteng sekswal… ( hala ako ba itoh)
sex lang ba ang dahilan kung bakit iniwan yung gurl? if so, hmmmm siguro po’y… gustong makarami… ahihihihi:D
nikita
12-13-2005, 07:22 PM
… openess kasi ang solution ng mag-partner pag dating sa parteng sekswal ( walang inhibisyon , pretensyon) … para parehas nyo alam kung ano bang satisfying sa inyo pareho … pwede naman kasi din yung pag aralan …the best mag-compromise ang isat isa , work it out kahit sa parteng sekswal… ( hala ako ba itoh) :Dsubarashii:D ikaw nga ba yan docoman san?.. …
richie
12-13-2005, 07:25 PM
To JEM_jp
Oo, loko ano?! Yung una nyang asawa kamukha nga ni Vilma Santos at maputi pa!
To DAX
Oo, sinusuportahan ang anak . Last summer pinapunta pa ang anak sa mga biyanan or ex-biyanan sa probinsiya. Nararamdaman namin, mahal pa rin nya si kalbo, naging loner na tuloy.
richie
12-13-2005, 07:38 PM
… openess kasi ang solution ng mag-partner pag dating sa parteng sekswal ( walang inhibisyon , pretensyon) … para parehas nyo alam kung ano bang satisfying sa inyo pareho … pwede naman kasi din yung pag aralan …the best mag-compromise ang isat isa , work it out kahit sa parteng sekswal… ( hala ako ba itoh)
Malaking bagay talaga ang sex sa magasawa lalo na sa mga lalaki! tatandaan ko yan:D
kawawa naman itong isa ko, nadadayet:D sobrang pagod ang katawan at isip sa trabaho both outside and inside the house. Ayaw kasi sa madaling araw kung kailan genki na ulit!
summergirl
03-08-2006, 09:19 AM
alam mo dear i’ve been married 20 yrs na sa jap,wala actually sa sex iyon,kasi pag matagal na ang relationship parang nagiging close friend na lang rin kayo.dapat aasikasuhin nyo sila not in bed kung hindi sa stomach rin,may tao talaga na hindi kuntento sa isa,sad to say this pero kawawa naman ang mga batang walang alam at muang sa mundo di ba.Di bale after pain daw is happiness di ba.wish u luck dear
3rdy
03-08-2006, 10:40 AM
My friend Marie and I had been trying to figure out a situation, kaso hanggang “baka” “di Kaya” lang kami. So in the end, “itanong na lang natin sa mga lalaki…”
situation:
We have an Filipina acquaintance, not actually a friend, who married a Japanese, they have one child. When their child was 6 months old, nagloko na si lalaki. In other words, nagdivorce. Nagpakasal ngayon etong Japanese guy sa isa ring Filipina, kakilala din namin.
Mas maganda yung unang asawa, masipag, masinop, mabait. Yung pangalawa, mabait, malambing, masinop din.
Ang gusto lang namin sanang itanong, ano ba talaga ang hinahanap ng mga lalaki sa kanyang asawa para di na niya ipagpapalit ito:confused:
Please share naman diyan!!!
Richie long time no hear!! Kumusta naka diha? About your thread, sandali lang pagisipan ko muna, hindi rin ako segurado eh 
aimi2819
03-08-2006, 11:49 AM
Open communication siguro ang mahalaga sa pagsasama ng mag-asawa, at ang alam kong ayaw ng mga lalaki, eh yung mga nagger at selosa na wala sa lugar.
docomo
03-08-2006, 11:42 PM
My friend Marie and I had been trying to figure out a situation, kaso hanggang “baka” “di Kaya” lang kami. So in the end, “itanong na lang natin sa mga lalaki…”
situation:
We have an Filipina acquaintance, not actually a friend, who married a Japanese, they have one child. When their child was 6 months old, nagloko na si lalaki. In other words, nagdivorce. Nagpakasal ngayon etong Japanese guy sa isa ring Filipina, kakilala din namin.
Mas maganda yung unang asawa, masipag, masinop, mabait. Yung pangalawa, mabait, malambing, masinop din.
Ang gusto lang namin sanang itanong, ano ba talaga ang hinahanap ng mga lalaki sa kanyang asawa para di na niya ipagpapalit ito:confused:
Please share naman diyan!!!
i think this is subjective ; depends on the spouse/partner . in the case of this japanese guy , from what you stated, both filipinas had almost common traits ( masipag,masinop,maba it,malambing) but still he divorced the first and married the second.
it’s difficult to speculate on the reason/s; firstly we don’t know what really happens in their home. the first may have been mabait (this is not to judge ha, purely guess work lang) but may have had the traits that the hubby found offensive.
what may be good for one may not necessarily be good for another.
Hungry eyes
03-09-2006, 07:25 PM
siguro maraming kulang doon sa unang asawa…hindi nga lang natin alam yon…or true nature na yon noong guy,papalit palit…may mga ganoon talaga…share ko din yun tungkol sa old friend ko…may edad sya sa napangasawa nya…okey naman sila sa palagay nya…yon pala yun lalaki may iba na pilipina din…mas bata…pero ang reason nun guy bakit nya ipinagpalit si friend ko…kasi daw panganay na anak…maraming responsibilidad sa pilipinas…kaya noon makakita ng bata at bunso pa ayun…divorced…stup id reason.pero ganoon talaga ang buhay…iisa lang ang dahilan kung bakit madali magpalit ang iba…kulang sa pag ibig…or akala nila kasi iyon na hindi pala…
sana ok naman yun friend mo at baby nya…dadarating din ang para sa kanya talaga…
Ayara
03-10-2006, 09:20 PM
Aside from absence of love I think there are other reasons why husband look for another- wife’s fault are nagging, extravagance, poor homemaker, staying out too late, gossiping, selfishness, too many outside interest, too bossy, careless and untidy personality. (just my opinion) aside from that a maybe its becoz of money matters, or misunderstanding about raising children, problems in in-laws and relatives.
ladygems1216
03-11-2006, 12:01 PM
Aside from absence of love I think there are other reasons why husband look for another- wife’s fault are nagging, extravagance, poor homemaker, staying out too late, gossiping, selfishness, too many outside interest, too bossy, careless and untidy personality. (just my opinion) aside from that a maybe its becoz of money matters, or misunderstanding about raising children, problems in in-laws and relatives.
I think so,
richie
03-19-2006, 11:04 PM
Maraming salamat sa additions ninyong lahat!! They add to self-confidence because this scenario affected me personally, baka mangyari sa akin kawawa naman mga anak ko. Kung mangyari man… sana nasa timing…kapag kaya na nilang tumindig sa sarili nilang mga paa.
By the way, yung person concerned… nakakabawi na sa tingin ko dahil smiling na ulit…yun nga lang very busy sa trabaho.
Thanks ulit tf friends!!
fisher
03-19-2006, 11:10 PM
My friend Marie and I had been trying to figure out a situation, kaso hanggang “baka” “di Kaya” lang kami. So in the end, “itanong na lang natin sa mga lalaki…”
situation:
We have an Filipina acquaintance, not actually a friend, who married a Japanese, they have one child. When their child was 6 months old, nagloko na si lalaki. In other words, nagdivorce. Nagpakasal ngayon etong Japanese guy sa isa ring Filipina, kakilala din namin.
Mas maganda yung unang asawa, masipag, masinop, mabait. Yung pangalawa, mabait, malambing, masinop din.
Ang gusto lang namin sanang itanong, ano ba talaga ang hinahanap ng mga lalaki sa kanyang asawa para di na niya ipagpapalit ito:confused:
Please share naman diyan!!!Love.
aeroguy30
12-24-2006, 02:04 AM
hindi lang naman sa pagiging malambing o masinop ang babae siyempre ang mga guys naghahanap din ng kakaiba pagdating sa sex… mahirap naman kung ang babae ay laging nasa receiving end lang in other words… dead wood. Paano ka gaganahan nyan, every day not only for the girls but for the guys also, should be creative and not doing the same position and ordinary routine. Try to experiment and playful to your partner… :rolleyes::rolleyes: :rolleyes: for me I love to be tied down in the bed and blindfolded while my partner do nasty and kinky stuff in my body… ;):D:eek:opsss… sometimes we dress up I love the teacher and student routine :shutup::shutup: hehehe pang xerex na ang dating ko sorry po… hehehe :D:D:D
Merry Christmas to all TF members… God bless! 
:band:
Autumn
01-06-2007, 04:07 PM
My friend Marie and I had been trying to figure out a situation, kaso hanggang “baka” “di Kaya” lang kami. So in the end, “itanong na lang natin sa mga lalaki…”
situation:
We have an Filipina acquaintance, not actually a friend, who married a Japanese, they have one child. When their child was 6 months old, nagloko na si lalaki. In other words, nagdivorce. Nagpakasal ngayon etong Japanese guy sa isa ring Filipina, kakilala din namin.
**though this is an old thread.makikisali na rin
6months old si baby…yan yun time na dead tired yun friend mo for nursing her baby…napaka stupid naman ng X nya para mambabae …makasarili .sariling L…lang ang alam sorry for the words
ang magsawa may sinumpaang sa hirap at ginhawa daw ay magsasama. napakalaking kasinungalingan sa part ng X nya…sa tingin ko iyan yun klase ng lalake na self centered…
we cant please everybody talaga minsan kahit sarili natin ang hirap i please…
i feel pity for her but this is the life .kindly tell her to be brave to face the life…right man will come in the right time 
sharpener
01-08-2007, 10:16 AM
My friend Marie and I had been trying to figure out a situation, kaso hanggang “baka” “di Kaya” lang kami. So in the end, “itanong na lang natin sa mga lalaki…”
situation:
We have an Filipina acquaintance, not actually a friend, who married a Japanese, they have one child. When their child was 6 months old, nagloko na si lalaki. In other words, nagdivorce. Nagpakasal ngayon etong Japanese guy sa isa ring Filipina, kakilala din namin.
kung ganyan ang sitwasyon, mas mabuting sa Hapon kayo magtanong
kase po di naman ganyan ang Pinoy
ang Pinoy iniiwan ang 6 months old na anak para maghanap-buhay sa ibang bansa, may kasama pang iyakan
pineapple
01-08-2007, 11:30 AM
sometimes hindi lang naman babae ang may mali or its not right to say na may kulang sayo (sa girl) kaya siya pinagpalit sometimes nasa lalaki ang mali… yan yung unmatured love…
geminigirl
01-08-2007, 12:00 PM
men are men (and that includes women of course) it doesn’t really mean that if your partner has a trait or character you find really offensive, pwede na magloko. di ba when you get married or live together, you accept your partner flaws and al?. it is even said that no one is perfect until you fall in love with him/her. every little thing should be taken into consideration di lang sex. maybe if something is wrong in a relationship, pag-usapan. iba naman kasi yung ang lalaki o babae ay talagang promiscuous…wala na yata talagang solution diyan:(
lagi pa namang nasa disadvantage ang babae in broken relationships…
docomo
01-09-2007, 12:29 AM
We live in the real world and not in the movies, nobody’s perfect and no relationship will ever be perfect either!..it can never be easy being happy everyday.
geminigirl
01-10-2007, 04:31 PM
We live in the real world and not in the movies, nobody’s perfect and no relationship will ever be perfect either!..it can never be easy being happy everyday.
uhuh you’re right doc. happiness is the one thing in the world that is soooooo very hard to find. even the richest are not happy…relationsh ips fail…but we can try to make it perfect…it depends upon the situation you are in i guess…
mamimo
01-16-2007, 06:43 PM
My friend Marie and I had been trying to figure out a situation, kaso hanggang “baka” “di Kaya” lang kami. So in the end, “itanong na lang natin sa mga lalaki…”
situation:
We have an Filipina acquaintance, not actually a friend, who married a Japanese, they have one child. When their child was 6 months old, nagloko na si lalaki. In other words, nagdivorce. Nagpakasal ngayon etong Japanese guy sa isa ring Filipina, kakilala din namin.
Mas maganda yung unang asawa, masipag, masinop, mabait. Yung pangalawa, mabait, malambing, masinop din.
Ang gusto lang namin sanang itanong, ano ba talaga ang hinahanap ng mga lalaki sa kanyang asawa para di na niya ipagpapalit ito:confused:
Please share naman diyan!!!
Di sapat ang good qualities para mag-stay sa marriage ang lalaki, para sa kin nasa ugali na yan ng lalaki kung matino ba sya o hindi, kung loyal o hindi pero meron din naman na habang nagtatagal ang mag-asawa may pagbabago na di sila maka-cope then nagiging reason to ng pag-hihiwalay kaya nga may salitang out-grow na minsan ginagamit para ipaliwanag ang hiwalayan.
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