ning2
08-11-2005, 12:31 AM
Mga taga TF at kababayan !
Mayroon po tayong isang member na kailangan ng tulong. Para mapangalagaan ang kanyang privacy hindi ko na babanggitin kung sino sya.! Ayon sa kanyang kwento(pinaiksi ko lang po) siya ay may asawa at kasalukuyang nagdadalantao. Mukhang hindi maganda ang trato sa kanya ng asawa, sinasaktan sya sa kabila ng kanyang kalagayan. Bukod pa roon ay lahat ng kanyang kilos ay naka-monitor. hindi sya pwedeng makipag kaibigan sa ating kapwa pinoy-pinay. Konting pagkakamali ay delikado ang lagay nya. Hindi rin sya pwedeng makipag-usap sa telepono dahil baka mahuli sya ng asawa, alam nyo na syempre takot lalo pa at bago lang sya dito sa japan. Ni hindi sya makapag-pa-prenatal chek -up sa hospital dahil wala yatang pakialam ang kanyang asawa sa kanyang kalagayan. Gusto nya na ring umuwi dahil may naiwan pa silang anak sa pinas. Naisip ko baka meron pa kayong maisa-suggest bukod sa itinuro ko sya sa mismong cityhall ng place nila na magtanong sa FUKUSHI section dahil alam kong makakatulong sila at makakagawa ng kaukulang hakbang, ibinase ko lang po sa naging experience din ng isa ko ring kaibigan at sa awa naman ay natulungan sya. bukod pa doon sa mga NGO’s kaso hindi po ako pamilyar sa mga iyo eh. kung mayroon pa po kayong alam nagpapasalamat po ng marami!
makulit
08-11-2005, 04:56 PM
Hi Ning2. I am sorry to hear about our co-timog member. Depende kung anu ba ang gusto nyang gawin. Tulad ng nasabi mo na nga sa kanya, pwede syang mag punta sa city hall sa Spousal Violence Support Center.
Spousal Violence Support Centers
These centers provide counselling, medical, psychological, or other required guidance and assistance for victims to become self-reliant. It will also provide temporary protection in either shelters or other government supported facilities for victims and family members, such as children, and offer information and other forms of assistance to help find a place where victims can live in safety and receive long-term protection.
How to get a restraining order
After notifying the appropriate authorities (i.e. the police, medical facilities, city welfare office or Spousal Violence Center (SV Center)) of the violence, the SV Center with the victim’s cooperation, will submit the appropriate paperwork to the district court. The district court will then issue either a restraining order, in which your husband/partner is not allowed to approach you for as long as six months, or an eviction notice evicting your husband/partner for up to two weeks. If you choose not to seek legal action, but wish to temporarily escape from your husband/partner, there are both governmental and non-governmental support groups to give you counselling and help you find temporary protection for both you, and if necessary, your children.
Increasing your safety:
If you are residing with an abusive partner and are unsure of what to do it may be wise to have a plan and to take various precautions. The following are advised:
- Have important phone numbers such as the local police, hotlines, friends and shelters accessible at all times. If you have children that are old enough you should also advise them of places to contact if you are ever in danger.
- If there is anyone nearby who you can trust and tell about the violence; ask them to contact the police if they hear suspicious noises.
- Have at least three places in mind that you can go if you leave your home.
- Leave extra clothes, keys, money and copies of important documents with someone you can trust and go to in times of trouble.
- Have a list of things you may need if you leave, for example; identification, passport, children’s birth certificates, school and medical records, money, bankbooks and credit cards, house/ car keys, driver’s license, address book, medication etc.
During a violent incident:
- If a violent incident arises try to move to a room or an area that has access to an exit.
- Consider ways to get out of your home safely, what doors, windows, elevator or stairs can you use?
- Be prepared to leave quickly, if possible have a bag packed with essentials placed in an accessible place.
- Use a code word with children, family and friends or neighbors so that they can call for help on your behalf.
- Always have a plan in your mind of where you will go if you have to leave in a hurry.
Getting Help and Support
All inquires and services are confidential
Aichi Prefectural Counseling Center for Women (Spousal Violence Center)
? (052) 913-3300
Hours: Mon. to Fri, from 9:00 to 17:00, and until 21:00 for telephone inquiries.
Address: 2-4 Ono-cho, Kita-ku, Nagoya
Aichi Women’s Center (Will Aichi)
? (052) 962-2568
Hours & Services: Professional legal advice via phone in Japanese regarding domestic violence every Saturday from 14:00 to 15:30.
Address: 1 Kamitatesugino-cho, Higashi-ku, Nagoya 461-0016
Mikokoro Center ? Tomo-no-Kai
? (052) 953-9480
Hours: Mon. to Sat., 10:00 to 16:30; Japanese, English, Tagalog, Spanish and Portuguese) or 090-1892-1995 anytime (Japanese and English only).
Address: 3-6-43 Marunouchi, Naka-ku, Nagoya 460-0002
Filipina Circle for Advancement and Progress (FICAP)
? (052) 242-1277
Hours: Wed., Fri., Sat. & Sun. from 15:00 to 17:00 for the above telephone or 090-8955-8718 (cell phone anytime is OK); Japanese, English & Tagalog
Address: 4-20-11 Naka-ku Sakae, Maruzen Building 4-D.
Assistance for Child Abuse
Information in foreign languages regarding consultation for child abuse is unfortunately limited; however there are a few hotline services available. Please don’t hesitate to call the numbers below.
Tokyo English Helpline
? 03-5774-0992
Call for assistance of any sort. Available everyday from 9:00 - 16:00 and 19:00 - 23:00.
International Medical Information Center (AMDA), Tokyo office
? 03-5285-8088 (Tokyo)
Medical information, introduction and interpreter assistance. Available in English, Chinese, Spanish, Korean and Thai via telephone from 9:00 to 17:00 Monday through Friday and in Portuguese on Monday, Wednesday and Friday as well as Tagalog on Wednesdays.
International Medical Information Center (AMDA), Osaka office
? 06-4395-0555 (Osaka)
Medical information, introduction and interpreter assistance. Available in: English and Spanish Monday to Friday from 9:00 to 17:00; Chinese from 11:00 to 14:00 on Tuesdays; and Portuguese from 11:00 to 15:00 also on Tuesdays.
Linha de assistencia ao latino (Free hotline service)
? 0120-66-2477 (Spanish) from 10:00?14:00 & 19:00?21:00 on Wednesday; 19:00?21:00 on Thursday and Friday; and 12:00-21:00 on Saturday.
? 0120-66-2488 (Portuguese) from 10:00-21:00 on Wednesday and 12:00-21:00 on Saturday.
Call for assistance of any sort in Spanish and Portuguese.
Free Personal Counseling for Foreigners at the Nagoya International Center.
? (052) 581-0100
Support for foreign residents who struggle with difficulties in their life in Japan. Counselors provide counseling in English, Portuguese, Spanish, Chinese and Korean. The counseling service is free, however reservations are necessary. Call the NIC 3F Information Services Corner for more information or to make an appointment.
Reference : http://www.nic-nagoya.or.jp/english/survivaltip/survival0411.htm
ning2
08-13-2005, 01:31 PM
makulit:)
thanks a lot for the informations you posts! i’m sure mayroon ng clue ang ating co-member sa kanyang first move na gagawin.
ning2
mOtt_erU
09-08-2006, 11:30 PM
…Youre such a good friend Ning2....Seeking Help for your friends sake.
you`re friend is So Lucky to have you
love0308
10-05-2006, 09:30 PM
Hidoi! Kawawa naman ang friend mo but she is lucky to have a friend like you:D although wala akong maitutulong dahil hindi po ako familiar sa case na ganito pero may natutunan po ako:) kaya yung asawa ko wag siya magkakamali dahil alam ko na ang tatakbuhan ko he he:D
ning2
10-06-2006, 10:57 AM
Hidoi! Kawawa naman ang friend mo but she is lucky to have a friend like you:D although wala akong maitutulong dahil hindi po ako familiar sa case na ganito pero may natutunan po ako:) kaya yung asawa ko wag siya magkakamali dahil alam ko na ang tatakbuhan ko he he:D
@ love0308, kawawa nga eh…kumusta na kaya siya ngayon? sana nasa maayos na siyang kalagayan pati mga anak nya…
…Youre such a good friend Ning2....Seeking Help for your friends sake.
you`re friend is So Lucky to have you
@motteru san, thank you…nakakataba ng puso.
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